Girl turned slightly bunny boiler...

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Poor guy must be cacking himself, stop taking the ****

I once had a reply to an ad in the paper (before online dating) so I spoke to her on the phone and arranged a meet-up the next week, great I thought. She then rings me up later and invites me to her house for a meal several days sooner. Hmm, OK I thinks, getting a bit wierd now. House is on a council estate.

She subsequently rings me up every hour or so describing exacly what she's doing, calling me intimate names, and I find out she's had several kids, some grown up, and her brothers are boxers. That was the point I have to pluck up courage to ring her back and say you're scaring the bejeezus out of me now and it ain't happening. We never met but I lived in constant fear over the next few weeks I was going to get a good kicking off her brothers.

Incidently got another reply off the ad a month or so later, and we've been married for 14 years now, so it doesn't always end up with a beating and A&E.
 
I once had sex with a chubby. Prior I always worried about if I could actually get it in due to the belly size. Luckily you can as when they lay down, the belly kinda flops to the sides.

anyway, half way through (we were both a bit tipsy) we rolled around the bed and fell off. She winded me....I honestly thought I was having a heart attack.

obviously like the man I am, I finished the job. She had a nice face
 
So after getting a hand full of texts yesterday, asking me how my day was going etc etc, which I did reply too, she sent me a text at 8am telling me she hoped I had a great day and wondered if she could come over tonight after work.

I felt the poor girl needed to hear the truth, so in the most kindest way possible I said that I wasn't so much uncomfortable about her lying over her appearance, if I had have been I wouldn't have had sex with her but although I think she is really really great that her becoming so insecure and far too needy after sex really bothered me. That I've only just got to a point in my life where I'm happy again and although I'm looking to meet that special someone, the fact that I feel like I already have to walk on egg shells and watch everything I say and do for fear of hurting someone so soon into things isn't something I can commit too.

I told her that she is a lovely girl and of course deserves to be happy and that I'm really sorry if she got hurt, that wasn't what I wanted but that I don't think we should contact each other again because I don't want to hurt her any more than I already may have done.


I've not had a single response from her, I'm not sure if that's a good thing or not...
 
Vidar said:
So after getting a hand full of texts yesterday, asking me how my day was going etc etc, which I did reply too, she sent me a text at 8am telling me she hoped I had a great day and wondered if she could come over tonight after work.

I felt the poor girl needed to hear the truth, so in the most kindest way possible I said that I wasn't so much uncomfortable about her lying over her appearance, if I had have been I wouldn't have had sex with her but although I think she is really really great that her becoming so insecure and far too needy after sex really bothered me. That I've only just got to a point in my life where I'm happy again and although I'm looking to meet that special someone, the fact that I feel like I already have to walk on egg shells and watch everything I say and do for fear of hurting someone so soon into things isn't something I can commit too.

I told her that she is a lovely girl and of course deserves to be happy and that I'm really sorry if she got hurt, that wasn't what I wanted but that I don't think we should contact each other again because I don't want to hurt her any more than I already may have done.


I've not had a single response from her, I'm not sure if that's a good thing or not...
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Wait for the police visit.
 
Vidar said:
So after getting a hand full of texts yesterday, asking me how my day was going etc etc, which I did reply too, she sent me a text at 8am telling me she hoped I had a great day and wondered if she could come over tonight after work.

I felt the poor girl needed to hear the truth, so in the most kindest way possible I said that I wasn't so much uncomfortable about her lying over her appearance, if I had have been I wouldn't have had sex with her but although I think she is really really great that her becoming so insecure and far too needy after sex really bothered me. That I've only just got to a point in my life where I'm happy again and although I'm looking to meet that special someone, the fact that I feel like I already have to walk on egg shells and watch everything I say and do for fear of hurting someone so soon into things isn't something I can commit too.

I told her that she is a lovely girl and of course deserves to be happy and that I'm really sorry if she got hurt, that wasn't what I wanted but that I don't think we should contact each other again because I don't want to hurt her any more than I already may have done.


I've not had a single response from her, I'm not sure if that's a good thing or not...
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I'd rather silence than a barrage of weird texts. If she's that clingy there's no way she isn't hurt by being let down, but hopefully she'll just take it on the chin and ignore you.
 
No reply means she's launching into full-on fogbeast RAGE.

I'd go to a friend's place tonight if I were you in case she sets fire to the house while you're asleep. :p
 
benjii said:
I'd rather silence than a barrage of weird texts. If she's that clingy there's no way she isn't hurt by being let down, but hopefully she'll just take it on the chin and ignore you.
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Oh dear, I wouldn't say that. Silence is bad, very bad. A rant, some name calling, anything really. But silence. Lol...
 
Vidar said:
I've not had a single response from her, I'm not sure if that's a good thing or not...
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She's ****ging you off on an internet forum somewhere no doubt.

Or shes crying and cant see to type.

Or she's dead.

Or she's in a car driving and can't text right now.






Where's she going I wonder....
 
Vidar said:
So after getting a hand full of texts yesterday, asking me how my day was going etc etc, which I did reply too, she sent me a text at 8am telling me she hoped I had a great day and wondered if she could come over tonight after work.

I felt the poor girl needed to hear the truth, so in the most kindest way possible I said that I wasn't so much uncomfortable about her lying over her appearance, if I had have been I wouldn't have had sex with her but although I think she is really really great that her becoming so insecure and far too needy after sex really bothered me. That I've only just got to a point in my life where I'm happy again and although I'm looking to meet that special someone, the fact that I feel like I already have to walk on egg shells and watch everything I say and do for fear of hurting someone so soon into things isn't something I can commit too.

I told her that she is a lovely girl and of course deserves to be happy and that I'm really sorry if she got hurt, that wasn't what I wanted but that I don't think we should contact each other again because I don't want to hurt her any more than I already may have done.


I've not had a single response from her, I'm not sure if that's a good thing or not...
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To be fair, you did the right thing so don't worry about it!

Theophany said:
Wait for the police visit.
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Dammit, beat me to it.. :D
 
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