I have been there, I have sat in Job Centre on my £60 a week listening to chav's with iPhone 5's talking about they need more money to go out more, talking about how much coke they sold that week. I know people who have a huge house, 3 cars, all the clothes they need, exploiting disability benefit for things like a bad back etc who have nothing wrong with them.
I have been told my dyspraxia + autism is not a disability and then sent to remploy, a disability agency, who wanted me to do 37 hours a week in a factory making goods for them for nothing.
Then when I started my limited company, Remploy had the cheek to send me a letter stating I have to pay them a percentage because they take a cut of all remploy clients paychecks, normally from their employer.
I tried to use the system as it is meant to be used and got the bare minimum and screwed over, told my disabilities were not disabilities, and then sent off to be used because I have the same disabiltiies and yet everywhere around me people are abusing it and getting away with it. I had to go in 3x a week and these people go in twice a year.
SO don't sit and tell me I know nothing and that I haven't been there and that I lack empathy, as I have experienced it myself!
Honestly I'd like to be serious for a second - congratulations. You put your mind to something and assuming that you're not making it all up you're being successful. You don't need to prove anything one way or another to people on the internet, so I will assume that the business is working out and congratulate you.
But please try not to be such a dick about it.