What to buy an old **** buddy

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Subliminal Aura said:
Really valid points mate.
I'm not the type of guy who doesn't follow through so I really don't want go back on my word.

I'm seeing her because we used to sit and talk for hours, she's unbelievably deep and intelligent it's a real pity that we ended up sleeping with each other but that was years ago and hopefully a forgotten mistake in my eyes.

She did once ask me if the sex meant anything. I had no reply :eek:
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If you realise you have made a mistake but you are simply doing it because you "don't want to go back on your word" then that's a massive problem.

You said it yourself. It's a mistake. So why do it?

Fair enough it sounds like you have a connection but you have already said it's a mistake so are you simply trying to justify it by trying to convince me you two are close?

If you REALLY want to go through with this, then have a mate ring you at 10pm or have another event to go to so you have a time limit.

"It's going to be great seeing you but i am attending a birthday/whatever so i'll need to leave here at 10pm" or whatever. Then you have an escape route set up.
 
SideWinder said:
If you realise you have made a mistake but you are simply doing it because you "don't want to go back on your word" then that's a massive problem.

You said it yourself. It's a mistake. So why do it?

Fair enough it sounds like you have a connection but you have already said it's a mistake so are you simply trying to justify it by trying to convince me you two are close?

If you REALLY want to go through with this, then have a mate ring you at 10pm or have another event to go to so you have a time limit.

"It's going to be great seeing you but i am attending a birthday/whatever so i'll need to leave here at 10pm" or whatever. Then you have an escape route set up.
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Thank you.... You Sir are extremely mature for your age.

You've given me some great ideas :)
 
If you're worried she's going to leap on you like a sexual tyrannosaurs reschedule to eat at a restaurant instead.

Job done.
 
Lots of silly unnecessary replies in here.

My advice would be to just buy her something that connects with the meal you're having. A freshly made dessert perhaps?

And if you don't want things to go to the next level just have your way out before bed time. Although assuming she invited you round just for sex is a little egotistical. Maybe she just wants to catch up?

Either way avoid taking alcohol or some expensive gift. It would just give the completely wrong impression
 
A bottle of wine is a perfectly respectable gift when going to someone's house for dinner. It doesn't mean you're going to bump ugglies.

For goodness sake, if you don't want to have sex. Don't. It's not a complicated concept.
 
Mr Jack said:
A bottle of wine is a perfectly respectable gift when going to someone's house for dinner. It doesn't mean you're going to bump ugglies.

For goodness sake, if you don't want to have sex. Don't. It's not a complicated concept.
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I agree.
 
Don't buy her anything but do have a really good think about why you're catching up.

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I'm hoping tomorrow does not end up with sex being on the cards
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Don't have sex with her then, even if offered or available. Simple, really.
 
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