One of the most vital aspects of learning to drive, any car, any wheel drive, is the impact your right foot has on speed, traction, smoothness of progress and balance. Sadly this is not taught and actually most people never learn it, for they are not really that interested or that bright...or both. I grew up when there were more RWD than FWD cars but frankly, bar a Westfield I sprinted, my first RWD road car was a Sierra company car, not a paragon of balance or progression when it came to drifting.
People who open a post with "I'm a fast driver" and then go on to explain how they fear RWD tells me they are neither a fast driver or experienced. No problem at all with that, but RWD is perfectly safe if you DO know how to drive and how to use your right foot. In my experience when a RWD car does break away oppostive lock is a natural instinct anyway, you just need time and experience to know how much (to avoid the tank slapper), how quick (to avoid the ditich) and what that right foot does to control it.