ok so give your explanation of how people who have died...been murdered or raped and murdered or died from accidental bombings to died of cancer have been helped.
you can use other examples to, like how people who were in financial trouble and went onto losing their homes and then died of starvation or some other horrible death, how these people were helped.
i was questioning these people who were in trouble and God was meant to have helped.
seems a case of if you are in trouble and you so happen to get out if it then it was Gods doing but if not then bla bla bla some excuse.
I don't know you'd have to ask them specifically but then the point I have detailed to Sliver would also apply to you wouldn't it. They could rightly say you are shining a spotlight on a single event in a lifetime without placing it into context, you are ignoring what was actually experience through that event, etc.