What Greece is going through now could never be described as "relative stability". It's facing zero economic growth, high levels of unemployment, high levels of poverty, and the emigration of all of its skilled workers. If you think that's the sort of thing that leads to a quick recovery then you're going to be surprised.
where have I indicated that I thought a recovery through taking bailouts and implementing austerity measures would be quick?
You're right though, that is, essentially, the choice facing the Greek people. Stay in the Euro under constant pressure from unreasonably unmoving lenders or leave and face total uncertainty. It is a terrible decision that a country must make, but i commend Tsipras for trying to put it to a referendum although probably too late.
I wouldn't commend him at all, he's a weak leader
The strange thing is that i don't even think Germany or the ECB or anyone else really wants Greece to leave. The Euro was supposed to be a union for life, and Greek exit would have huge impacts on the rest of the Euro. Without that promise of stability and certainty a lot of investors are likely to be turned off.
I don't think they've got much choice, they've tried negotiating with the current govt and they get more demands, silly threats and silly tricks/pr stunts like suddenly announcing a referendum... which their negotiating partners only get to hear about in the news.