Ashley Madison user accounts leaked online

If I remember correctly is this the same site that wanted payment for customers personal details to be deleted off their site but it isnt deleted it was just hidden.

That was one of the reasons/excuses this site was hacked.
 
Xordium said:
I fail to see how you can determine that from my post but I guess you'll just continue with your inane dribble following my posts across the forums ...

Off you meds again perchance?
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Ignore him and he will soon get bored and go away

More often than not, the people most vocal about cheating are cheaters themselves. Used to work with a woman in her 40s, married, two kids, whenever this topic came up, she would be very vocal about how horrible cheating was, and that blokes needed castrating.....turns out she was cheating behind her husbands back. Obviously it was the husband in the wrong as he wasnt paying her enough attention.

anyway......back on topic regarding AM. There was a radio 2 phone in about this a few weeks back. There was a caller on who said her husband had agreed to his wife signing up as he was disabled and in very ill health. They both loved each other, but there was no physical intamacy. If both couples agree to it, then I kinda guess it's ok.
 
G J said:
If I remember correctly is this the same site that wanted payment for customers personal details to be deleted off their site but it isnt deleted it was just hidden.

That was one of the reasons/excuses this site was hacked.
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I'd guess that all companies hold our personal data, even after closing accounts.

The big companies certainly do. Microsoft, google, facebook

Ever closed a Google account, and then re-activated it years later? everything comes back.
 
Wow, dick move to release this info, no matter what your thoughts are on cheating leaking all that personal info is stepping over the line.
 
glen8 said:
I'd guess that all companies hold our personal data, even after closing accounts.

The big companies certainly do. Microsoft, google, facebook

Ever closed a Google account, and then re-activated it years later? everything comes back.
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There is a difference between deleting an account and deactivating one.

AM stated that your information would be removed from their site if you paid a fee.
 
Cheats are scum plain and simple, thieves who steal emotions and cause untold emotional and psychological harm to the people they are supposed to be closest to. Bring into the equation financial aspects and you can expand the damage caused greatly, medical costs, lost days at work, legal aspects and actual financial impact on the economy caused by those factors. Cheats deserve all they get for the harm they cause. That said there maybe many people in that data that did not actually go through with the act of cheating.
 
platinum87 said:
The only difference is premeditation. Lack of premeditation is indicative of an inability to control ones thoughts and actions, which in my opinion is far worse.
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really - perhaps consider another context - murder

someone plans to kill someone well in advance, with a cool head

vs

someone gets in a bar fight or catches someone breaking into thier own home, they overpower the attacker/burglar but in the heat of the moment, adrenaline pumping they go too far and the attacker/burglar ends up dead


most people would tend to take the opposite view to you - premeditated being much worse

you explain to your wife the drunken one off incident on the stag do, with lots of remorse, you slipped up, it won't happen again etc..

vs you explain to your wife that you actively signed up to a cheating website , contacted several women, eventually found one to meet up with - clearly not a mistake but something you planned, decided to do over a number of days, with a cool head

you'll find that though most women would be upset with either, most would be much more upset with the planned online encounter than with a drunken one off mistake

adrenaline, alcohol etc.. affects the judgement of every human being to some extent
 
Hilarious.

People are pathetic, if you want to cheat just break up.

Lack of self control, empathy for the other person combined with an intensely selfish attitude and you've got yourself a cheater.
 
Xordium said:
Whilst I don't agree with non-consensual affairs outside of marriage I can't help but feel this was a very bad thing to do. People make mistakes and people make mistakes when married. Affairs happen and happen often - that is hardly new - but often they go under the notice of everyone else but those involved and stop and then life moves on for all. I can't help but feel that a lot of damage is going to come from this for events that are well past or fleeting or only conceived in the imagination.
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I don't think you sign up to a site and actively look for an affair by mistake.

A businessman drunk in Vegas, walking back to his hotel room after a night out, gets approached by a stunning blonde half his age with a killer body, she's an expert salesperson, grabs his arm, only $X00 for the time of his life... that is more of a mistake.

Actively seeking that sort of encounter on the other hand is more than just a mistake.
 
wonder what % of them were fake accounts set up by the company in order to send messages to the free members to get them to subscribe - at least that seems to be the business model of quite a few dating sites
 
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