Ashley Madison user accounts leaked online

dowie said:
I don't think you sign up to a site and actively look for an affair by mistake.

A businessman drunk in Vegas, walking back to his hotel room after a night out, gets approached by a stunning blonde half his age with a killer body, she's an expert salesperson, grabs his arm, only $X00 for the time of his life... that is more of a mistake.

Actively seeking that sort of encounter on the other hand is more than just a mistake.
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To be fair I had a female friend who joined a proper dating site and was mortified that she discovered her profile was also on other less mainstream "dating" sites like "upforit","fling xxx" and "cheeky lovers" as the company used female profiels from their other sites to increase the appeal of their dodgier sites.

Apparantly it was in the smallprint when she signed up.
 
I'm not sure how that is relevant to this story or to the point I was making? I mean it still involves signing up to a dating site...
 
dowie said:
I'm not sure how that is relevant to this story or to the point I was making? I mean it still involves signing up to a dating site...
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She was single and signed up to what she thought was a "proper" dating site to find a man for a relationship. Not to also have her profile on "im easy, come shag me.com" as well. Presumabel even after leaving the dating website and now in arelationship, her details are still up with her pics on some other dubious websites?

Plus since obviously records are never deleted at Madison, how many people might be in a relationship now or even married yet they might be shown as been a member of a cheaters website when it was before they ever even met?
 
Greebo said:
She was single and signed up to what she thought was a "proper" dating site to find a man for a relationship. Not to also have her profile on "im easy, come shag me.com" as well. Presumabel even after leaving the dating website and now in arelationship, her details are still up with her pics on some other dubious websites?

Plus since obviously records are never deleted at Madison, how many people might be in a relationship now or even married yet they might be shown as been a member of a cheaters website when it was before they ever even met?
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But they'd still be a bit untrustworthy wouldn't they given they signed up to a cheating website during their last relationship
 
Xordium said:
Whilst I don't agree with non-consensual affairs outside of marriage I can't help but feel this was a very bad thing to do. People make mistakes and people make mistakes when married. Affairs happen and happen often - that is hardly new - but often they go under the notice of everyone else but those involved and stop and then life moves on for all. I can't help but feel that a lot of damage is going to come from this for events that are well past or fleeting or only conceived in the imagination.

Not cool all around. I don't see why people say well done to the hackers they aren't exactly highly idealistic here are they - vengeful if anything - Ashley Maddison have held multiple years worth of CC transactions for no reason and lied it appears about the demographic of their users and those users may not even be real because the emails given weren't verified and a load of blokes who most likely should have known better are now going to wreck their families because they couldn't keep their pants on or envisaged that situation.
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You can't be for real, signing up for a site like this is more than a mistake.
 
Greebo said:
She was single and signed up to what she thought was a "proper" dating site to find a man for a relationship. Not to also have her profile on "im easy, come shag me.com" as well. Presumabel even after leaving the dating website and now in arelationship, her details are still up with her pics on some other dubious websites?
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that's got nothing to do with the thread - tis also suspect - what is the name of this proper dating site? The sorts of sites you mentioned do white label stuff but they're generally all along the same theme

Plus since obviously records are never deleted at Madison, how many people might be in a relationship now or even married yet they might be shown as been a member of a cheaters website when it was before they ever even met?
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some maybe -so they were cheaters in a previous relationship - maybe they've got some explaining to do, maybe their current partner is already aware that they cheated on their ex wife
 
Tefal said:
But they'd still be a bit untrustworthy wouldn't they given they signed up to a cheating website during their last relationship
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dowie said:
that's got nothing to do with the thread - tis also suspect - what is the name of this proper dating site?



some maybe -so they were cheaters in a previous relationship - maybe they've got some explaining to do, maybe their current partner is already aware that they cheated on their ex wife
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No i meant they could be on there when they are single. ANd now years later they are in a relationship. I doubt the hackers when they release the info show the last time logged on etc?

And as I said, who said they signed up to this specific site? These sites share the profiles around plus, although I havent looked, I suspect not everybody on madison is in a relationship or married or cheating?

If you were a sinle bloke and so inclined, wouldnt you join a site promising sex from married women with no strings attached or commitment?
 
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Energize said:
You can't be for real, signing up for a site like this is more than a mistake.
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Of course it is - but also, so is releasing details of people on the site. Especially some of those who might be totally innocent (e.g. someone signed up with their email address).

There's no defending cheating, but there's also no defending leaking of personal data (if the news are to be believe it's addresses, cc numbers - not fully, names, email addresses, post codes, sexual preferences etc).
 
Greebo said:
No i meant they could be on there when they are single. ANd now years later they are in a relationship. I doubt the hackers when they release the info show the last time logged on etc?
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the site is for people in a relationship, tis possible but, well, a bit sad...

And as I said, who said they signed up to this specific site? These sites share the profiles around plus, although I havent looked, I suspect not everybody on madison is in a relationship or married or cheating?
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what is the name of this site your friend signed up to? AFAIK it is usually just white labels of the same company - so no I don't think it applies here. Also your friend might well be telling porkies and actually signed up to a hook up site.
 
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dowie said:
the site is for people in a relationship



what is the name of this site your friend signed up to? AFAIK it is usually just white labels of the same company - so no I don't think it applies here. Also your friend might well be telling porkies and actually signed up to a hook up site.
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No idea and was years ago. But she was upset at the time and showed me her profile on sites she "says" she never joined and asked me to help her.

And as for the other, you are really telling me all 26m members are in relationships and there arent singles on there looking for no strings sex?
 
Greebo said:
No idea and was years ago. But she was upset at the time and showed me her profile on sits she "says" she never joined and asked me to help her.
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sorry but your analogy is rather flawed then and quite likely not as you first claimed

And as for the other, you are really telling me all 26m members are in relationships and there arent single on there looking for no strings sex?
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nope, just that people who did do that are a bit silly
 
dowie said:
sorry but your analogy is rather flawed then and quite likely not as you first claimed



nope, just that people who did do that are a bit silly
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I wasnt saying Madison was one of these sites relating to her. I was saying that she joined one site, found a partner, left it and then discovered her picture and profile was on 3 other sites which she didnt know about and these companies spread them around.

Perhaps Madison is just a "solo" site so perhaps you are right and everybody on there made a conscious choice.

I still stand that I doubt every one on there is a cheater and there will be people just looking for sex or kinky stuff.
 
right but that is going way off on a tangent - my point was that singing up for a cheating site is worse than having a one off drunken incident you didn't plan

then you quoted me with some analogy about a friend that is rather flawed and not really relevant to my post at all
 
dowie said:
right but that is going way off on a tangent - my point was that singing up for a cheating site is worse than having a one off drunken incident you didn't plan

then you quoted me with some analogy about a friend that is rather flawed and not really relevant to my post at all
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I was just pointing out that

1. They may have been single when joining a "cheating" website
2. They may not even be aware they have joined a "cheating" website

That was all :)
 
Greebo said:
I was just pointing out that

1. They may have been single when joining a "cheating" website
2. They may not even be aware they have joined a "cheating" website

That was all :)
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I'll just point out that 'they' don't exist and for the purpose of my post they did cheat

I'm not talking about someone who accidentally signed up

I'm comparing cheating via a dating site with cheating when drunk

like I said earlier, your post is just not relevant there
 
There's little to no chance they weren't aware what they were signing up for, though point 1 is entirely valid.

Still makes the person a scumbag though! Looking for other peoples wife / husband to cheat with essentially.
 
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