yes I have given up on heists all together I have done all 5 on my 'own account' it was very stressful to get groups together and then to have them all complete each stage without dying/failing in some way or quitting, don't get me wrong I did have many fun moments when all went right and I do like a lot of the idea's used within the heists but I won't join the heists of others anymore unless its at the heist stage or maybe its someone that I know will do good 
