Can't Understand the situation with this girl...haha

Angilion · 17 Nov 2015 at 10:18

Roar87 said:
Why don't you refute the point instead of using an ad hominem. Why should the OP respect her relationship status if she's made it apparant she doesn't?

Because a person is responsible for their own decisions. In my opinion, anyway. You are, of course, free to disagree.

So one person's decision to do something does not absolve another person of responsibility if they decided to do it too.

Say, for example, I stole a car, drove it around to your house and said "Hey! I stole this car and I'm going joyriding! Hop in! We'll take turns driving this stolen car!" Would you consider that if you decided to do so then you wouldn't be responsible for that choice?

hughtrimble · 17 Nov 2015 at 10:29

Angilion said:
Because a person is responsible for their own decisions. In my opinion, anyway. You are, of course, free to disagree.

So one person's decision to do something does not absolve another person of responsibility if they decided to do it too.

Say, for example, I stole a car, drove it around to your house and said "Hey! I stole this car and I'm going joyriding! Hop in! We'll take turns driving this stolen car!" Would you consider that if you decided to do so then you wouldn't be responsible for that choice?

How is this at all comparable to the OP's situation?

Junglist · 17 Nov 2015 at 10:46

SonniLombardi said:
got me listening to Prodigy now, probably one of their best tracks ever and a personal fave, mind you the whole album Experience was great.

Leeroy's dancing was amazing, to think all this kids nowadays shuffling to house thinking it's a new thing, Leeroy was the king at shuffling!

Best bit at 2:23

EDIT: Thread derailed sorry OP

You don't understand how many times I've tried to do that dance

wildman · 17 Nov 2015 at 12:36

your first mistake was going to a Drum and Bass Rave. Everything after that just compounds the original mistake.............................

4T5 · 17 Nov 2015 at 12:38

Op sounds a bit Rapey

Checks we are in GD

SonniLombardi · 17 Nov 2015 at 13:10

JunglistE said:
You don't understand how many times I've tried to do that dance

Haha same here

oulton · 17 Nov 2015 at 13:16

My pilling days were good, just sayin

Angilion · 17 Nov 2015 at 23:34

hughtrimble said:
How is this at all comparable to the OP's situation?

It's comparing making a decision to do something with making a decision to do something and arguing that someone else deciding to do it first does not absolve a second person from responsibility for their own decision to do it.

People often look for excuses to not be responsible for their own decisions. It's always different somehow when you're looking for an excuse - people are generally very good at manufacturing reasons to pretend it's different when they do it.

You have focused on an analogy while ignoring the point. Since an analogy can't be identical, it's easy to dismiss it as irrelevant (without having to say why) and then use it to ignore the point.

dowie · 17 Nov 2015 at 23:42

but it doesn't seem to be relevant either

women aren't private property like a car and she is free to chose whether to be with him if she wants to or not - there isn't necessarily any 'wrong' for the OP or this girl to be responsible for in the first place providing she is then upfront with the 'boyfriend' that she has found someone else

hughtrimble · 18 Nov 2015 at 09:10

Angilion said:
It's comparing making a decision to do something with making a decision to do something and arguing that someone else deciding to do it first does not absolve a second person from responsibility for their own decision to do it.

People often look for excuses to not be responsible for their own decisions. It's always different somehow when you're looking for an excuse - people are generally very good at manufacturing reasons to pretend it's different when they do it.

You have focused on an analogy while ignoring the point. Since an analogy can't be identical, it's easy to dismiss it as irrelevant (without having to say why) and then use it to ignore the point.

I focussed on the analogy becuase the point you were trying to make with it didn't follow on at all from the OP's situation.

Read Dowie's post - she's free to do what she wants, just as the OP is. Would I do the same? No. But that's not to say what she wishes to do and what the OP wishes to do are wrong. You have an opinion, and you've made it clear what it is. But your opinion IS NOT a rule that the OP or this girl have to abide by!

dowie said:
but it doesn't seem to be relevant either

women aren't private property like a car and she is free to chose whether to be with him if she wants to or not - there isn't necessarily any 'wrong' for the OP or this girl to be responsible for in the first place providing she is then upfront with the 'boyfriend' that she has found someone else

Absolutely.

Cold Fusion · 18 Nov 2015 at 13:42

*Reads all 7 pages of GD Relationship Thread*

*Leaves thread somewhat disappointed but unsure as to why, the acceptance of drug taking, the variation in peoples moral compass, or the fact that the pasty has been left cold and unsmashed*

lawrence281 · 18 Nov 2015 at 21:14

Right lads, i've failed you lot, ended up having a normal convo that led back to the situation hahahaahha. And to the cinema thing, basically she said everything "just not to be mean" "what did you expect, i have a boyfriend" hahhaah. Quite possibly I believe..she does want to be faithful..anyhow she blocked my whatsapp >goes pornhub> im back

Curio · 18 Nov 2015 at 21:35

lawrence281 said:
Right lads, i've failed you lot, ended up having a normal convo that led back to the situation hahahaahha. And to the cinema thing, basically she said everything "just not to be mean" "what did you expect, i have a boyfriend" hahhaah. Quite possibly I believe..she does want to be faithful..anyhow she blocked my whatsapp >goes pornhub> im back

Blocked you? ouch. Were you getting a little creepy?

Oh well, nothing ventured, nothing gained, and all that

sigma · 18 Nov 2015 at 21:57

I suggest you pray at the dnb church to mourn the loss of this fantastic opportunity. Pastor GQ may have some advice.

(contains sweary at 12 sec so keep it down for the first few seconds if kids near by)

RyanF · 18 Nov 2015 at 21:57

poop through letterbox

Thorper · 18 Nov 2015 at 22:04

Just poo through her pasty and smash her letterbox.

Amidoinitrite?

itchy · 18 Nov 2015 at 23:55

How about? :confused:

Make sure bin is empty, kick back door in and poo though her letter box from the inside. :eek:

OP seems a little.............

lawrence281 · 19 Nov 2015 at 00:05

Curio said:
Blocked you? ouch. Were you getting a little creepy?

Oh well, nothing ventured, nothing gained, and all that

A tad annoying at most with the questions haha

itchy said:
How about?

Make sure bin is empty, kick back door in and poo though her letter box from the inside.

OP seems a little.............

I do kinda have a phycho gone-girl split personality **** going on

You really think you have a girl figured out..and the signs are there..and then boom PLOT TWIST lol

smelly_legend · 19 Nov 2015 at 00:26

If she was rolling your well blew it, OP. Plus, if she was the one, she's be bangin' someone else too. When she overthought things, she probs liked you and thought "I don't wanna screw this guy over, i'm a wee dirty and he is quite nice"

or she discovered something late and hates you.

lawrence281 · 19 Nov 2015 at 00:47

smelly_legend said:
If she was rolling your well blew it, OP. Plus, if she was the one, she's be bangin' someone else too. When she overthought things, she probs liked you and thought "I don't wanna screw this guy over, i'm a wee dirty and he is quite nice"

or she discovered something late and hates you.

Just cant tell if she was being genuine serious that she wasn't that into me because she has a boyfriend or because another way of letting me down whilst shes banging someoen else in the uk, but the amount of love that goes on through fb to her fb is unreal, biggup the free drugs love haha