Dating multiple women - morality
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Think of it this way... If you're out with one of the women at a restaurant and one of the other women you're dating come in to eat, for instance, with their family - If she came over and said hi and asked who you were with, would you feel like you couldn't say that you're on a date with her?
If you'd feel guilty, awkward or bad - Then yes, you shouldn't be dating both of them.
What I mean is - It's dependent on how far you are with the women - If you've kissed two of them, you are in too deep with both of them and should break one off... In my opinion
If you'd feel guilty, awkward or bad - Then yes, you shouldn't be dating both of them.
What I mean is - It's dependent on how far you are with the women - If you've kissed two of them, you are in too deep with both of them and should break one off... In my opinion
Calm down Chad.
LOL, you're doing it wrong if every girl who replies on tinder only wants to go shopping.
LOL, you're doing it wrong if every girl who replies on tinder only wants to go shopping.
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Probably. You're stringing people along. If the answer to any of your questions is "am I deliberately keeping things from someone to avoid their reaction" is a yes, then you know you're being dishonest with them.
It's understandable that when you're single and you meet different people you might take a little time to make up your mind about who you want to date. But there's only a short way you can go down that road before you're messing someone around. Kissing a few different people and not going farther, is probably alright if there's no implication that it's a promise of more. But it probably is so you should be careful and try to make a decision very soon. Don't go further than this with any of them until you have.
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like i said. if i have my way then i know who i would pick... but i cant just things on hold for her.
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If you asked me this years ago I'd say it's wrong, but after going to uni and seeing what everyone is like there I'd now say the complete opposite (depending on your age I guess). Girls do the same thing all the time. They'll see you and then be at Tyrone's a few hours later. Can't trust anyone these days.
Sleep with them all, go no contact and then on to the next three.
Sleep with them all, go no contact and then on to the next three.
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Well, you aren't technically exclusive, but I cant see any of the women wanting to get serious with you or continue if they found out.
Chances are they would all just end it and assume you were looking for something different than they were.
Chances are they would all just end it and assume you were looking for something different than they were.
From personal experience, maybe.
When I split from wife I went on a bit of a mission to smash as much pasty as humanly possible, which was quite amusing for a year or so (this was 2 years after the breakup, I took it quite badly) and had several on the go in very close proximity, a few times being in the same bar at the same time. What this does for your nerves...
Then one of them just wouldn't leave and she's been in living in my house since December... TBH I wouldn't swap what I have now for all the excitement in the world, but at the same time I don't regret what went on.
When I split from wife I went on a bit of a mission to smash as much pasty as humanly possible, which was quite amusing for a year or so (this was 2 years after the breakup, I took it quite badly) and had several on the go in very close proximity, a few times being in the same bar at the same time. What this does for your nerves...
Then one of them just wouldn't leave and she's been in living in my house since December... TBH I wouldn't swap what I have now for all the excitement in the world, but at the same time I don't regret what went on.
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Uni is a bit different.....though I do have friends who met at Uni and are married with kids.
Well if that one has turned you down then you let her go, see what happens with the other two, the first one could be dragging you along with the intention of just being "friends".
You could then miss out on more pasty from the others.
Personally i would only date one at a time and would like to think i would get the same back, but i don't see anything wrong with seeing more than one as long as nothing serious is going to come of it and you and the women are just after some fun, if their just up for a **** then why not if that's all your interested in too?
I was new to being single around 18 months ago. At first when I started dating one girl I would stop with the others. I grew to realize this was probably not the way it works these days.
Now I will not stop with my FWB or other girls until we have had a chat and decided to be exclusive.
Now I will not stop with my FWB or other girls until we have had a chat and decided to be exclusive.
I'm sure we've all done it at one time or another, in the early stages of any particular relationship.
So long as you end it with the "spares" once you decide to get serious with one of them (or find someone else) I don't see it as a problem. As you say you can't exactly be far along the path of relationship bliss if the furthest you have got is a few kisses with 2/3rds of the harem
So long as you end it with the "spares" once you decide to get serious with one of them (or find someone else) I don't see it as a problem. As you say you can't exactly be far along the path of relationship bliss if the furthest you have got is a few kisses with 2/3rds of the harem