Dating multiple women - morality

XeNoN89 said:
Seeing a few comments about women wanting free meals etc.

Guess i'm the only one who refuses to pay for a dates meal unless i've known them a while.

It's 2016 why should I be expected to pay for a woman's meal? I'm sure they can work and can afford to split the bill.
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This seems to be a UK/American thing women expect of a man on dates. Many women from other countries will go half on a bill.
 
Women are proudly doing this nowadays so what's the issue?

Well, if you like one more than the others....why waste time with the other two?
Women sense this stuff. Dropping the others might be the kick to seal the deal.

Plan C is to smash hookers and order a Russian bride to cook at home.
 
Ultimately depends on how far it's gone.

If you're sleeping with them? Then no, pick one and don't go any further with the others.

On the other hand if you've just had a couple of dates and it hasn't gone that far yet, then I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
 
You sound like a nightmare. I feel for these poor women.

I bet they only like you cos they are unimaginative and you are in a band.
 
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Acme said:
You sound like a nightmare. I feel for these poor women.

I bet they only like you cos they are unimaginative and you are in a band.
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U wot? You been drinking that cat D engine oil?

I don't see the issue with seeing a couple people at the same time (especially if you're not even sleeping with them!)
 
Nice position to be in. I think it depends on what you are trying to achieve. If you are clear in your head and clear with them that's it's all a bit of fun and how's your father then go for it. If not and you are hedging your bets as to who is best then yes that is wrong imo.
 
Nodiggidy123 said:
afternoon all.

ive now been separated 4 or so months. been out on a few dates but not met anyone i can see a long term future with.

im in the rare position where i am dating 3 different women. i have kissed 2 of them and there is the possibilty of taking things further with one of them.

the issue i have is am i doing something wrong? none of them have shown any interest in being exclusive but the whole thing just feel a bit strange to me.

am i doing a bad thing here?
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This is the basis of 75% of romcoms.

The first arc centres on our hero drilling and filling the three hotties. After a while he realises he really wants to be with one of them and gets ready to tell her.

The second arc is where they find out about each other. Disaster! He's gone from hero to zero and 'the one' won't speak to him! Also, no sexy times.

The final arc features our hero finally winning over 'the one'. Everyone lives happily ever, hurray!

I would watch this film.
 
Participant said:
'I'm not having sex with you because you've only dropped pant because I'm in a band'

...said no man ever.
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I wouldn't want to sleep with someone who 'wants in' because of anything other than their emotions for me... *doffs fedora*
 
Surely dating is all about multiple women if the man is Alpha, if you're beta you're lucky to get just one. There is no relationship or loyalties if you haven't had sex with them, women don't care about males that haven't been inside them.
 
What the **** are you talking about? If that is the standard level of understanding of women then I really do despair... :(
 
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Tosno operates differently from most normal people. I pretend it's parody when I read it although deep down inside I know that it's not and he means it.

He is basically a real life version of reddit.
 
Acme said:
What the **** are you talking about? If that is the standard level of understanding of women then I really do despair... :p
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You wouldn't understand as you think "Exclusivity is sort of implied when you date someone"
 
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