Housemates girlfriend / boyfriend

I would be annoyed about the shower thing alone. I'm minding my own business, getting ready for work, only to arrive 20 minutes late because someone was hogging the shower. Then I get pulled up by my boss because it starts to become regular. Yes there will be replies to my post saying "why not just wash your face in the downstairs loos?" Nope, I'm the type where I have to shower every morning or it doesn't feel right.

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OP is one of the tenants, she needs to make sure he's had the chance to have a shower and get to work instead of hogging it... since she's not paying to be there
 
Just try and have a chat, if nothing changes move out and post extra so you don't have to deal with it.

Just be nice about it, you'll be surprised how many problems can be fixed with a quick chat
 
Try being civil. Failing that, just ask her to leave every time she's around and your housemate isn't. Well within your right to do that. The message will get through pretty swift i'd say.

That or call the police and say you've got an intruder. heh
 
Does anyone else have a housemate that has a girlfriend or boyfriend that is constantly around your house? I don't mind it a 2 or 3 times a week but when its almost everyday it starts to grind on me.

Consider yourself a lucky bugger, some places charge you for that kind of service.
 
What type of shower do you have?
If it is electric, just trip the switch while she is in it.
Dander off, come down 'fix the issue' move along. Rinse repeat as required.
Certainly gets her out of the bathroom when you need in.
 
Im not bothered about the communal space. More the bathroom being taken in the morning when im trying to get ready and cooker/hob being in use when im trying to cook. She did say something like this the other day "you need to get more cooking utensils" to which i replied "you need to cook at your house" ...she looked annoyed and stomped off

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I would want to shower every morning too. That said, I'd still speak to the person involved to try to remedy the situation.

People often don't think..and also don't magically know everything you know. Simply making them aware of a situation can help.

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