If I was that kids parent, I would try everything to save him. They've raised the money for the treatment, they should be allowed to try. If it fails, at least they will know they have done everything humanly possible.
It shouldn't be for a court to decide.
I think I'd agree with you. The parents who must be at their wits end have one last Hail Mary shot. Give them this chance, the money is there the parents want this more than anything. It almost certainly won't work but at least they will be able to let their child pass knowing they have done everything that could have been done, Instead of leaving them to spend the rest of their lives thinking what if.

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