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It's not for you to declare that as a fact...Tipping culture is bull ****.
He can't declare his opinion as fact, but you can?

It's not for you to declare that as a fact...Tipping culture is bull ****.

It's not for you to declare that as a fact. Some people think it's fine to pay exactly what the bill says...
His opinion that people are "cheap" for announcing they don't tip. That isn't remotely factual. That isn't evidence that they are actually cheap. Tipping culture IS bull ****. We don't need it in the UK, and the reason it's a thing in the US is backwards anyway.He can't declare his opinion as fact, but you can?![]()
So you're entitled to a tip? You charge a fare, then you get upset that you don't get more than the advertised fare? How is paying the displayed price being "cheap"?
It's not for you to declare that as a fact. Some people think it's fine to pay exactly what the bill says...
If the establishment wants more, they should charge more. Tipping culture is bull ****.
He can't declare his opinion as fact, but you can?![]()
He hasn't got a problem with people paying the exact amount, he has a problem with people announcing loudly they are only going to pay the exact amount.
It happens a lot and I always wonder "Why say it?".
It's like posters on here posting "Who?".
His opinion that people are "cheap" for announcing they don't tip. That isn't remotely factual. That isn't evidence that they are actually cheap. Tipping culture IS bull ****. We don't need it in the UK, and the reason it's a thing in the US is backwards anyway.
That isn't my opinion, it's a fact.
You didn't say that they make themselves look cheap, you asserted that they are cheap.I have NEVER said that I’m entitled to a tip, nor have I EVER felt aggrieved if I didn’t get one, sure, if the meter read £13.80, and the job gave me £15.00 and said “Keep the change”, I’d thank him politely, and be glad that I got a tip, but providing I got the £13.80, then that’s good enough for me, and I definitely wouldn’t view the job as a cheapskate, be fair, he paid the bill in full.
I’ve just said that I have no argument with someone paying the exact bill, see above.
If a tipping culture is anathema to you, then don’t tip, no one puts a gun to your head,
but not for nothing, avoid holidaying in the U.S. if you want a stress free holiday.
Thanks String, at least you get that I’m not the enemy here.
Thank you too SGF, everything I’ve laid out on here has only been my opinion, but in all honesty,
it has been an informed opinion, as I was at the sharp end of the taxi driving game for a long time.
And we square the circle, I never, ever, said that it’s a fact that people ARE cheap for announcing the fact that they are apparently proud to shout from the rooftops that they don’t tip anyone, I said that in my opinion, they make themselves look cheap, I reiterate, IN MY OPINION.
SGF, I love you like a brother, reading some of your posts you’re a stand-up guy, and I’m sure that you know exactly what you’re doing when booking a taxi, but I’m cracking up thinking of you getting a call while standing at the bar in a boozer in Stoke.
“Hi, Mr. S.G Fox?, I’m your driver, I’m outside”
“Thanks, I’m just under 6 feet, with black hair, greying at the temples, I’m wearing fawn corduroy trousers, with dark brown shoes, there are 3 of us, and we’re going to Pink in Hanley, thanks.”

Edit - I just re-read SGFs post. Yeah that doesn't happen to me![]()

You didn't say that they make themselves look cheap, you asserted that they are cheap.
But even then, that isn't a metric that proves whether someone is cheap.
Possibly, but somehow I doubt it.
As a retired Black Cab driver, I realise that I’m probably skating on very thin ice here, but I’ll take a swing.
As to asking the driver who has he come to pick up, I subscribed to a computerised radio circuit, that had a slew of corporate accounts in The City, investment banks, law firms, insurance companies etc.
A trip offer would appear on my monitor screen, e.g. Company UBS, customer Mr. Bloggs, ext 7308, pick up at Finsbury Ave. destination Canary Wharf.
On arrival at Finsbury Ave. I’d go to reception and say, “Taxi for Mr. Bloggs, ext 7308 please”, then return to my taxi and wait for the client to come out and say, “Are you for Bloggs?”
Very often, in inclement weather, or if someone had been waiting for what they deemed too long, they’d approach the taxi and say, “Who are you waiting for?”, I’d say “Bloggs”, they’d say “that’s me”, and get in.
I’d say, “Where do you want in Canary Wharf?”, they’d say, “Not going there now, take me to Putney.”
Then, Bloggs would emerge to find his taxi had gone, he’d make a call, and a message would come up on my screen, Can you confirm you have correct passenger on board?
Passenger would lie through his teeth and say he was Bloggs, so another taxi would have to be dispatched for the real Bloggs.
Eventually, when asked who we were picking up, we had to politely say, “Tell me your name sir, and if that’s the one on my screen, then that’s okay, I’ll take you.”
So no, it’s not always acceptable to ask the driver who he is picking up.
As for unhelpful or surly drivers, I only use Black Cabs, so as every driver is self employed, if the guy I hailed was surly, who could I report him to, himself?
Only using Black Cabs, that means that I always travel in the back seat, there is nowhere else to sit, I know that out in the boonies they use saloon cars, but in London, the only real taxis are Black Cabs, anything else is a poor imitation, usually driven by an immigrant wannabe, whether its Acme minicabs, or Uber.
AA/RAC? Can’t remember the last time I called them, but don’t recall any intransigence.
I tip the same amount that I’d like, (NEVER EXPECTED) when I was the one hopefully getting the tip, £4.60-£4.80, give him a fiver, £10, give him £11 or £12, £27.40, give him £30.
Trust a black cab driver to have a swipe at immigrants.
Fair enough, however the declaration of not tipping seems to be at least in context of this thread.I didn’t think that I had openly asserted that someone who didn’t tip was cheap, so in an attempt to check this, I went right back to the OP, and re-read every post on this thread.
In post # 81, I wrote that if people tell everyone that they don’t tip anyone ever, then as far as I was concerned they were cheap, and were happy for everyone to know that they're cheap.
Note, I wrote, AS FAR AS I WAS CONCERNED, which to me means, in my opinion.
In post # 82, Shocky-FM wrote in reply to my saying that I never felt “entitled” to a tip, that if I cared enough to call people cheap for not tipping me, then he tended to think that I was lying to myself, (presumably by saying that I never felt entitled to a tip).
I didn’t say that people were cheap for not tipping me, in fact I’ve already stated that if I got exactly what was on the meter I was satisfied with that, but I have said that in my opinion, people were cheap if they openly boasted that they never tipped anyone, meaning never tipping those that normally were tipped by people, waiters, barbers, taxi drivers, bar staff, waitresses etc.
In closing, although I’ve largely enjoyed the back and forth on this thread, and received an education in how taxis and taxi users operate in far flung parts of the land, I feel that for the most part we have nothing new to learn and contribute to it, so knowing that a bunch of our soi-disant “betters” view taxi drivers as modern day members of Ali Baba’s band of thieves, I’m content to assume that mantle, but I reserve the right to chip in again if I feel that I should.
I see as a bribe for good service, at least in the food industry.
I'm talking in places where it's normal to expect a tip. For example, America. Tipping is pretty much bribing for good service in the context of people will put more effort into waiting on people who they think might tip them better.It's only a bribe if you tip up front which I've never seen happen.
I'm talking in places where it's normal to expect a tip. For example, America. Tipping is pretty much bribing for good service in the context of people will put more effort into waiting on people who they think might tip them better.

I'm not sure about why any taxi driver should automatically expect a tip, would you tip a bus driver taking you to the same place?
If I keep saying this, I expect I’ll get a request to change the record, but, and here I’m speaking categorically for myself alone, I never, ever, automatically expected a tip, in all the jobs I did as a Black Cab driver.