14 year old daughter and 16 year old boyfriend.

[4K8KW10]

im her father is this right or wrong in this day and age.he came round last night i met him.he is here tonight also.what do you do?

If it isn't already too late, maybe speak with your daughter and explain to her why it is so much better to wait for these things for later.......

And by later, I mean soemthing like at least 5 years later, would be marvelous if 10 years later

 

[Slam62]

the boy seems ok.he has a job.the thing is my sister had a baby at 14 same kinda circumstances.my daughter aint silly either.she is a boxer and quite aware of stuff.

encourage him, blimey he could end up taking your daughter of your hands, plus potential drinking buddy.

 

[bobthejoiner]

she wont take **** and yes we have had the talk she hates kids anyway.**** hot boxing stance too i used to coach.my son 18 years good boxer the boyfriend will be frightened of him.im just a bit scared i think.no longer in control.open door cant see that happening.

 

[NoobCannon]

Ah another OCUK “how too life” thread.

Install a letterbox on her bedroom door

 

[edscdk]

Find the video on reddit of the kid getting executed for posting a video of himself poking the drug dealers daughter... Maybe put a kilo of flour in a plastic bag, leave it on the side.. Let boyfriend find video playing on your laptop by the bag...

 

[Thekwango]

next time he calls, answer the door naked. be pleasant and polite but remain naked. invite him and sit with him, try if possible to sit directly opposite him. at all times remain naked. don't make any excuses about the fact your naked. just make it appear this is perfectly normal for you.

 

[bloodiedathame]

I had a 14 year old girlfriend at 16. Set out some rules, treat them both with respect, they'll respect your rules.

 

[bobthejoiner]

I had a 14 year old girlfriend at 16. Set out some rules, treat them both with respect, they'll respect your rules.

yeah sounds good advice a bit of respect usually goes both ways.hopefully.

 

[Delvis]

bearing in mind a lot of people have ten years between their partners, its just the magical number 16 causing you issues

 

[4K8KW10]

The rule should be - be careful, no babies so early ....... wait for at least 5 years if it is important to have a baby.

 

[CREATIVE!11]

Adopt boxing stance.

 

[Raikiri]

Set a good example via punctuation.

Idontseewhatyoumean?

 

[Maccapacca]

Idontseewhatyoumean?

Being a pedant is a well know contraception

 

[HAz]

If she just turned 14 then yea really odd,if late 14 then almost acceptable. I remember when I was 16 at college and had no interest in some school kid.

 

[Mr Badger]

Set a good example via punctuation.

Police called after angry father punctuates his daughter's boyfriend.

 

[NooBish AbbZ]

I was 17 with a 15 year old gf. Didn’t smash. Too responsible for my own good

 

[Armageus]

Or the age of consent laws...

At the end of the day, unlikely you are going to stop it happening if that's what they both want. Better to have the chat about keeping safe, and better to happen under your roof rather than god knows where.

 

[XeNoN89]

2 years I fine at that age, remember girls are generally more mature than boys around then as well. Any more than 2 years would be pushing it though IMO

 

[Malevolence]

I was seeing a 14 year old at 17, in my defence I did meet her in a local rock pub where she was happily knocking back purple nastys and she didn't look anywhere near 14.

 

[Minstadave]

Are you ready for grandkids?