Something to make you rage...

Knowing how social services work (my wife works as part of the team) this bit doesn't ring true at all:

Mother has now locked the children inside her home, they can not go out and play, they are not in school and she refuses to let them visit me.

I have contacted social services today to ask if they could check on the children and let me know if they are ok but they declined to do so.

1) School only started up again today. And social services are on you like a ton of bricks if you aren't sending your kids to school.

2) Social services don't just suddenly stop checking on the welfare of the kids in instances like this.

I do know that parents can make up huge lies though. I know of someone whose ex has made up loads of allegations about the guy that aren't true. And recently nearly stopped her daughter from being taken to Disneyland by the dad for 2 weeks, just days before they were due to fly. Who does that to an excited child to score points??
 
Not the polices fault they are carrying out the court order. Emotional video and horrible for everyone concerned but what is the alternative?

We need the full back story, hopefully the children will end up in the best place for them.
 
Seems clear cut to me, kids stay with the Dad. It's wrong that courts default to the Mums in these scenarios even when it's clearly wrong.

I'm not saying Mum has done anything gross in this case, she has hit the boy but I doubt it was anything more than discipline.
 
The fact that there was a relatively stress-free plan (in terms of the kids stress) and that the sergeant chose to ignore this and cause the kids severe emotional distress in the process, I would be pushing this to the highest level, firstly to make sure she doesn't have a job anymore & secondly, in regards of the hitting comment, start an investigation as to why several agencies have ignored reports of violence committed against the kids.
 
Facebook post
Danni Lewsey Holmes Words cannot even begin to describe the emotions I am feeling right now whilst writing this on social media, I am absolutely distraught and heartbroken.
This is my little half brother and sister in this video and my ‘Dad’ is recording. This post is about to reflect on 21 years worth of heartbreak, neglect and anger.

I want to start by sharing my experience of this ‘man’ as I feel I am the only one who can truly understand Jack and Ambers (children in the videos) lives and tell people the truth behind this. Imagine the only memory of your Mum and Dad being together is when you were around 2 and can just remember seeing your mums face pouring with blood where she had car keys thrown at her. Imagine your memories as a child being sitting at your window waiting day on day for ‘Daddy’ to come and pick you up, like he promised, yet your mum having to wipe your tears and cuddle you tight when he never turns up. This is only the beginning, I am now 21 years old and I can’t even begin to explain the hurt the man recording this video has put me through.
The arrogance and simple mindedness of social media baffles me on a daily basis but today it has blown me away, thousands of shares, millions of views and hundreds of thousands of comments has my blood boiling, when not a single one of you has a single idea.
For these kiddies this is the best thing that will ever happen to them, they will go on to lead normal beautiful lives just like I have. Any child is bound to be distraught being taken away by strangers (yet all my ‘Dad’ can do is stand there and record, HOW FATHERLY) but these actions have been needed. Hundreds of comments saying how awful our police service is, can you also imagine how hard this situation has been for them, this situation that in actual fact MY DAD has left no option for our services, these poor people to take.
Every child needs BOTH a mum and a Dad in their lives, and without a Dad my life has not been and never will be complete. But this man is not a father. I have grown to be a young, successful, independent woman with an amazing family and friends and I promise you Jack and Amber will to.
So next time, before you share or comment on an extremely personal situation please think about why these situations are happening and the people’s lives you are effecting.
And to my Dad all I can say is well done.

Jack and Amber as your big sister I can promise you one day you’ll realise this is the best thing for you x
 
Half a story.
Kids used as emotional capital.
Police made to look like the bad guys.

Yep pretty standard emotional FB BS. Where do i like and share?
 
For those without facebook, here is the video: https://streamable.com/ep6nn



Well, am man enough to say, I had a few tears watching that, needless to say, it makes my blood boil.

I believe the kids, they not pretending anything, they honestly want to be with their dad.

Furthermore, the kids seem to be living with the dad since the beginning, but out of the blue, the mum is allowed to take them back, this is wrong, something wrong there.

"put the phone down and help calm the kids down" Yeah, that's not going to work, I don't think you understand kids enough to think they gonna calm down when they are bring ripped from their Dad to go stay someone clearly they don't want to be with. lol

Really? Whatever the decisions that are made by a court, there's a correct way to go about appealing things.

The dad is clearly a moron here and was more interested in filming the police taking away his crying kids, this was done for nothing more than effect.

If he'd have been a responsible adult, the phone wouldn't have even been in the room, he would have sat down with his kids and had a talk/cry with them and promised them that he would do all that he could to have them back living with him.

And now the story unravels, it sounds like @kindai got suckered into one side of the story, all based on a biased recording.
 
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