Nice. I like your thinking. What about maintenance costs though... dont diesel need a little extra money spent on them in regards to filters and stuff getting blocked up? I drive a petrol Civic Type R on a 3 mile commute.... Obviously efficiency isnt my bag but its interesting to see the difference.
Raw costs for parts are fairly similar between both, i think my last set of filters was around £25. Indy/dealership pricing for servicing between petrol and diesel may differ though.
I think diesel has more parts that could potentially go wrong compared to a petrol, but a lot of that comes down to how the car is being used. If you had a diesel for your 3 mile commute, then i wouldn't be surprised if you started seeing problems at some point, diesels like a good run at a reasonable speed (during a 50mph avg speed check road works, mine will happily fluctuate between 80-90mpg), they unfortunately don't like a bumper-to-bumper crawl at <5mph.
Edit: Oh, and as much as most petrol owners hate it, VED on Diesels are generally much cheaper. Mines £20/yr, compared to my partners where hers is £120/130 a year.