So annoying when people deliberately misrepresent positions in regards the ICE vs EV thing. It happens on both sides but seems far more ridiculous from the ICE crowd frankly (and I say this as an ICE driver and household)
The only relevant thing in regards "energying up" is how long you need to supervise it for. I find people vastly underestimate how long filling an ICE takes, I guess some will always fill up at remote stations etc (tend to cost more) or at odd times, but filling up at peak type times, I often find its far more like 15-20 minutes than a few seconds. Nothing more annoying than pulling up behind someone just walking into the shop to wait 10 minutes whilst they try to do a weeks shopping in there.
We are going to have to adapt and change mindsets, and the biggest impact will be seen by those doing high mileage and long runs since thats the biggest change from ICE to EV. But those are actually the minority. every stat published confirms this, average commute, average miles per annum etc. For every 60k mile per year driver there are multiple doing 10k or so.
Its always worth considering the opposite in situations, so imagine if we were used to a full state EV, with wide ranging options for recharging etc (I dont think anyone disputes it will be wide ranging eventually its just how we get there).
So take a position where people could easily charge, "just about anywhere". For the vast majority the vast majority of the time they didn't even think about it, since charging so widely available it was no different to being able to get a drink.
You tell all those people that its going to change, your going to take that away, your going to enforce only very limited options to refill, and some of them would not be 24/7. The majority wouldn't think it sounded very good would they.