I wonder if he really has insurance? Definitely go for a garage of your choice if he’s paying. He’s incentivised to go to the cheapest place he can think of.
I just knocked on his door, made peace and we had another chat. I told him I'm going to go out tomorrow to get some quotes. He keeps saying to me "it's just a panel beating job, I can get it done for £200".
I said it might well be but we don't know if there's any hidden damage structurally or electrically. He wouldn't acknowledge that though, he obviously thinks he knows better or is trying to convince to me it's just cosmetic. I mean, he might be right, but no-one knows yet. Personally, if it is just the bumper, I think it'll cost more than £200 if it's going to be done to any good standard, surely? And I showed him the cracks in it and he's like "yeah, they can just fill it in and paint it". I mean, what? The whole bumper needs replacing.
I mentioned what Lopez said about it not costing him his excess and he said it doesn't matter, he doesn't want to go through the insurance. He says he's paying £2,300 taxi insurance and he reckons if he goes through insurance it might go up to about £3000. I asked him why he didn't come and tell me he'd hit my car and he said he'd seen the bumper and didn't think it looked bad. I said you're having a laugh and showed him the photos from before the start rescue man had pulled it slightly back into shape. He said he'd hit my car around 7pm on his way back from work. The damage was obvious and he never came to tell me.
I asked him about payment and if he's really ok with paying once the damage is repaired. He said "yes, don't worry at all, I'll pay for it". I guess I have to trust him. He's been a pretty decent neighbour over the years I've known him.