Stiff upper lip, bravo. That'll stop that income multiple being 10xThe brigade you mention is people who are positive, and say it can be done, and your stance is, no, its impossible, so just give up.
Great stance to have.

Stiff upper lip, bravo. That'll stop that income multiple being 10xThe brigade you mention is people who are positive, and say it can be done, and your stance is, no, its impossible, so just give up.
Great stance to have.
Stiff upper lip, bravo. That'll stop that income multiple being 10x![]()
So obvious... brb I'll let them know I've found the internet warren buffet.. they'll be in touch.So double your income then.
The family across the road from us just moved. I assumed it would be to a bigger and better house as they moved across from a semi to their detached on the same street in 2017/18 and seemingly could afford to do so as they always had a new car, doing renovations etc.
Turns out they moved to Southampton because they couldn't afford their mortgage anymore.
- Yes my parents generation didn't waste money they didn't have and scrimped and saved for these things - well done boomers,
- you are correct that far too many people now expect to be able to buy a house, eat takeaway twice a week, go out at the weekends and have a nice car, all on an average salary.
My parents are set up reasonably well in their retirement now but dear lord did they earn it. Never spent a penny they didn't have and anything they bought was almost certainly a necessity. People living on benefits now would expect a far higher quality of life and my dad worked full time for the tax office and my mum looked after us and was a hair dresser.
Boomers struggle to relate to people complaining about housing costs when they see such a disconnect between when they were trying to buy and house and how they see people behave now who are trying to do the same.
I've not exactly been a mega earner, and I have been able to get to a point where I have nearly paid off my 4 bed detached at 50.
There are 2 sides here, both of whom have very good points and neither of which is willing to accept the others opinion at all.
My parents are set up reasonably well in their retirement now but dear lord did they earn it. Never spent a penny they didn't have and anything they bought was almost certainly a necessity. People living on benefits now would expect a far higher quality of life and my dad worked full time for the tax office and my mum looked after us and was a hair dresser.
- Yes, my parents generation had far cheaper housing. - well done current house buyers you are correct
- Yes my parents generation didn't waste money they didn't have and scrimped and saved for these things - well done boomers, you are correct that far too many people now expect to be able to buy a house, eat takeaway twice a week, go out at the weekends and have a nice car, all on an average salary.
Boomers struggle to relate to people complaining about housing costs when they see such a disconnect between when they were trying to buy and house and how they see people behave now who are trying to do the same.
Young people just have to live like it's the 1950's and eat bread and dripping for tea, simples. /sThe part that's always missing from this part of the equation when talking about the older generation, is that they didn't live in a consumerist society back then, so they didn't have the multitude of goods and services on offer. Nor did they have access to credit to buy the non-existant luxuries anyway. Society was so fundamentally different to today, the way they lived their life has as much relevance to modern society as someone from the 1920's equating how they were brought up to your parents in the 70's.
Our whole economy nowadays is run on consuming goods and services we don't actually need and being encouraged to take credit out to do it, that just wasn't the case back then. So it's not actually the pat on the back the older generation try and portray it as, that they were 'sensible and saved' etc and didn't blow their money on avacados, take aways and mobile phones, they didn't have any choice
Because as you say, the average standard of life is far higher than it was for the boomers (in respect of having more 'stuff' and disposable income) so what is regarded as a basic expectation of life's returns are higher than before.
That's even before we get into the programming society does (via advertising) that entice people with said goods and services, equating material wealth with success and your self worth and then offering you the credit to facilitate it.
Tree fiddyCan the good doctor predict the mortgage rates this time next year?
The part that's always missing from this part of the equation when talking about the older generation, is that they didn't live in a consumerist society back then, so they didn't have the multitude of goods and services on offer. Nor did they have access to credit to buy the non-existant luxuries anyway. Society was so fundamentally different to today, the way they lived their life has as much relevance to modern society as someone from the 1920's equating how they were brought up to your parents in the 70's.
Our whole economy nowadays is run on consuming goods and services we don't actually need and being encouraged to take credit out to do it, that just wasn't the case back then. So it's not actually the pat on the back the older generation try and portray it as, that they were 'sensible and saved' etc and didn't blow their money on avacados, take aways and mobile phones, they didn't have any choice
Because as you say, the average standard of life is far higher than it was for the boomers (in respect of having more 'stuff' and disposable income) so what is regarded as a basic expectation of life's returns are higher than before.
That's even before we get into the programming society does (via advertising) that entice people with said goods and services, equating material wealth with success and your self worth and then offering you the credit to facilitate it.
The converse to that is that a man working an average job could afford to buy a house and support a wife and multiple children on that one income. Nowadays it's taking both people to work to pay for the house and people deciding not to have children because they can't afford it!
The family across the road from us just moved. I assumed it would be to a bigger and better house as they moved across from a semi to their detached on the same street in 2017/18 and seemingly could afford to do so as they always had a new car, doing renovations etc.
Turns out they moved to Southampton because they couldn't afford their mortgage anymore.
Our whole economy nowadays is run on consuming goods and services we don't actually need and being encouraged to take credit out to do it, that just wasn't the case back then. So it's not actually the pat on the back the older generation try and portray it as, that they were 'sensible and saved' etc and didn't blow their money on avacados, take aways and mobile phones, they didn't have any choice![]()
Because as you say, the average standard of life is far higher than it was for the boomers (in respect of having more 'stuff' and disposable income) so what is regarded as a basic expectation of life's returns are higher than before.
The converse to that is that a man working an average job could afford to buy a house and support a wife and multiple children on that one income. Nowadays it's taking both people to work to pay for the house and people deciding not to have children because they can't afford it!
just got the wife a 2017 would never pcp or lease .. but we only have 1 car .. after 32 yrs with me ..lol she got something nice xc60 .. so you might be right .. we are def not well offI think if there is one thing that is in no way a good indicator of wealth, it is how new someone's car is/how frequently they get a new car.
Around here, it seems that the smaller and cheaper the house, the nicer the car they have....
I think a massive amount of people just pay silly sums monthly to lease a new car to keep up with their friends/have it as a status symbol etc.
£40k+...It's certainly tough to get a foot on the ladder, but far from impossible. You just have to want it enough. You have to make a lot of sacrifices and start at the bottom rung though. Obviously what part of the country you are in is the real killer. I've not exactly been a mega earner, and I have been able to get to a point where I have nearly paid off my 4 bed detached at 50.
My wife hasn't worked since my first born 7 years ago. It's not easy but ultimately I wasn't going to deny her wish of bringing the children up her way.The last one says a lot.
You cant have a house on a single wage and kids. Not even an above average wage.
Irrespective of money splurging. You just cannot have it anymore.
Base costs are higher vs average earnings.
Its a really slow death spiral. As its causing a decline in birth rates. And unless. Ai/robotics steps in the demographic pyramid flipping to be top heavy will cause huge shift in society
same as mine did tho we had no one else to look after them .. lol she did part time from about 6 yrs old to 11yrs .. after that she went back to full time ish .. 30-36 hrs while i did 50+My wife hasn't worked since my first born 7 years ago. It's not easy but ultimately I wasn't going to deny her wish of bringing the children up her way.
She'll most likely go back to work once my son is 5/6 - he's currently 4.