Your bad driving encounters/irritations

as tempting as it is, i would say you have gone far enough with the message on the window...... you could hang around waiting for them to come back to the car and have a word...... that is what i did when i found a landy defender ICEing 2 charging bays at a service station a month back. (i was polite as well, there is little point going all ranty) am sure it wont make a damn bit of difference but just on the slight chance it will make them be more considerate next time it was worth a shot.
 
Well... that was anti-climactic. She just put the note in the car and drove off, didn't even rip it up and throw it on the ground in a childish strop :(
 
Well... that was anti-climactic. She just put the note in the car and drove off, didn't even rip it up and throw it on the ground in a childish strop :(
temporary endorphin rush aside with a bit of luck she will park better next time, if not then i would definitely confront her for a (polite) chat.

as sad as it sounds and a reflection of how bad things in society are, i would probably have my phone on record whilst doing it just incase she goes off on one and then tried to accuse you of threatening her.
 
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temporary endorphin rush aside with a bit of luck she will park better next time, if not then i would definitely confront her for a (polite) chat.

as sad as it sounds and a reflection of how bad things in society are, i would probably have my phone on record whilst doing it just incase she goes off on one and then tried to accuse you of threatening her.

All covered by my CCTV anyway :)

I also named (well, reg-numbered) and shamed on the community hall and fat fighters Facebook pages :cool:

(politely... I even managed to resist the urge to point out that parking a bit further away and walking might actually help some of their members)
 
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Fat Fighters International meeting at the community centre across the road this morning:

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Was tempted to write "if you parked further away maybe you wouldn't be such a chunker", but thought that was a bit harsh.

Need votes please:

a) just live stream the reaction
b) go and block them in

A few notes to consider:

- You misspelled ****.
- Emptying a bag of defrosted prawns through the window is worthy of consideration, the gift that keeps on giving as it's unlikely they'll find them all. Not the immediate health hazard of poop but could be seen as enabling.

Joking of course, but inconsiderate people will continue to be.
 
A few notes to consider:

- You misspelled ****.

Nah, just my writing is terrible, and the pen was running out :(

- Emptying a bag of defrosted prawns through the window is worthy of consideration, the gift that keeps on giving as it's unlikely they'll find them all. Not the immediate health hazard of poop but could be seen as enabling.

In this weather? Oooh, that's nasty! :D

Unfortunately no prawns to hand, and if I did, I'd rather eat them!
 
or could have just opened the door and rolled the car back ? (is that illegal)

lost one of my 9 cycling lives today on a roundabout and exiting (was going straight on) women in fiat 500 ,
looked like a retired version of the girl who is jaw's crush in moonraker, pulled out out only 2 yards in front - she got the large part of the GenX expletives,
and stopped a 100yds up the road, to apologise i guess, but I thought what is the point speaking to her.
 
at least she stopped. Not excusing it but people do make mistakes and for me a genuine apology (so long as no physical harm done) I find fixes most problems. OTOH she could have stopped gearing up for a full on slanging match...... which would have made for a far more entertaining post :D

PS whilst in my uni days i have moved a car with a bunch of mates (proper minis are quite light!) i suspect it would still be illegal as you would be interfering with someones property (any any damage would be dicey from an insurance point of view).
 
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Fortunately saw it coming a mile off so was ready for it - driving just now and a bunch of drunk girls stumbling along the pavement beside the main road and one stepped right out in front of me, to the horror of the one girl who was actually paying attention, fortunately I'd already timed it with a gap in the traffic the other way so I could go wide of them and had slowed right down. Another day or another driver they might not have been so lucky.
 
Good one on Friday, not going to post the video (yet) as it was bad enough I've sent it to the police.

I'm doing ~18 mph, approaching a traffic light controlled crossroads, I'm about 4 cars back, and the light has just turned green. First car goes ahead, second car goes right, third car goes left, and I'm going ahead.

The car behind me decides to overtake on the wrong side of the traffic island, and narrowly misses hitting the car going right, carries on straight ahead, and overtakes the first car, another near miss with oncoming traffic. Reaches the next set of lights - which are on red - so pulls a U-turn in the middle of the road, forcing the car he's just overtaken and traffic coming the other way to brake sharply, then just drives back the way they came as if nothing happened :confused:
 
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Saw something similar last week where a guy undertook two lanes of traffic to use the empty left turn only lane to go straight on at a lights controlled roundabout/intersection to “beat the red” and soared through the next red light 30y further on at about 50mph.

Caught up with him at the next set of red lights where traffic was already stopped.

If I had a dashcam it would have been going to the police as well. Some of the worst driving I’ve seen in a long time.
 
Saw something similar last week where a guy undertook two lanes of traffic to use the empty left turn only lane to go straight on at a lights controlled roundabout/intersection to “beat the red” and soared through the next red light 30y further on at about 50mph.

Caught up with him at the next set of red lights where traffic was already stopped.

If I had a dashcam it would have been going to the police as well. Some of the worst driving I’ve seen in a long time.

I got a cheap decent quality dashcam for £21 off Amazon add a sdcard for less than a tenner. I bought it specifically as a separate rear dashcam that plugs in to the boot 12v socket. I already have a 4k front dashcam but even this cheap one would be perfectly suitable as a front dashcam.

There is just so much of the crap driving you described above that there is no reason at these prices not to get one. Even if not hardwired and just running off a USB/12v port.
 
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Caught up with him at the next set of red lights where traffic was already stopped.

Had similar earlier, Audi A3 went steaming past traffic which was doing the speed limit, in and out of the other side and overtaking on corners, 5 minutes up the road we came up behind them again at traffic lights and the car in front of them in the queue was driving really slow and too much traffic after that for them to pass.
 
Yesterday

On A1, absolute treacherous torrential rain hit. Rain and spray almost hiding HGVs it was that bad.

I put my front and rear fogs on to increase visibility, as had many other drivers as we all slowed to a safer speed.

Except for the Kia Sorento in front, driving blissfully without any lights other than his front DRLs & a gormless look on his geriatric face that made me question if he was actually alive.
 
A newly passed driver today in a Skoda Citogo dawdling at 30 mph in a 60. Now I get that when one is new to driving they might be more cautious but doing half the speed is very bad. Even if they were at around 50 it would have been ok. Couldn't overtake as there were two cars in between us and oncoming traffic wouldn't allow the other two to go either.

This car also dropped to 30 in a 40. Hope they improve in the future.
 
A newly passed driver today in a Skoda Citogo dawdling at 30 mph in a 60. Now I get that when one is new to driving they might be more cautious but doing half the speed is very bad. Even if they were at around 50 it would have been ok. Couldn't overtake as there were two cars in between us and oncoming traffic wouldn't allow the other two to go either.

This car also dropped to 30 in a 40. Hope they improve in the future.

Unlikely - I suspect most people get worse the longer ago they passed their test!

That being said, I've had a Citigo as a hire car before and I've seen margarine tubs with more structural integrity, I probably wouldn't want to do more than 30mph in one either! :cry:
 
Yesterday I was sat next to the local hospital. It's this junction so before the yellow box is one lane of traffic and a bus lane, after the box traffic splits into 2 lanes, turn left or straight over:


I was waiting before the box and left a space clear in the queue to go straight over the lights - someone was sitting in the hospital entrance waiting to emerge. The left lane to turn left at the lights, was entirely clear.

The old lady looks around, sees me waiting, waves thank you and slowly emerges. Turns left and straddles both lanes before pulling into the left lane and driving off and round the left turn bend.

She could have just ignored me and turned left without going near my lane :confused:
 
Motorway / dual carriageway driving is getting worse in the UK. The average follow distance is about a third of what is officially deemed safe. I have my ACC set to the shortest follow distance and compared to the majority of cars on the road it looks like I'm leaving a country mile to the car in front. I genuinely think people have recalibrated the two second rule in their own heads and are oblivious to the sections of chevroned motorway which are designed to reset your follow distance.

Then there are the tailgaters, which are becoming more common and less logical. If I'm dawdling in lane 2 with no one in front and no one to my side, fair enough. I can understand you putting a bit of pressure on to get me to move over. But mid overtake of a row of cars or in solid traffic with a car in front? What is the objective here?!

I genuinely think I'd get less tailgating if I was to be sitting up the chuff of the car in front but because there is a couple of second gap I think it doesn't register that I'm actually travelling as fast as I can and would be going quicker if the road was clear.

Most recent memorable one was the stereotypical white transit. Mate in the passenger seat to show off to, not a straight panel on it, chucking out thick black smoke and the driver in the hunched forward hands crossed over the top of the wheel position. Despite being in a line of traffic he kept gesticulating to "go on", where exactly I don't know. Eventually the car in front had overtaken all the cars in lane 2 and moved over, I carried on past and moved over myself (once I'd left a couple of second gap) and I got the sarcastic "well done" clapping. Meh, whatever, van carries on in lane 3 and I forget all about it.

Ten minutes and a couple of junctions later the traffic thins out and I catch up with the same van, now sat in lane 2, merrily trundling along a good 10+ mph slower than before. So what was the bloody rush?!

Yesterday I lost count of how many people blasted past, then slowed down, then sped up, then slowed down. I'm not talking the normal variance of people not using cruise, I'm talking 90 MPH overtakes and 60 MPH dawdling seemingly at random. Then you get the wide boys, normally in an M*40i it would seem who think the road is some kind of race track for their amusement carving through the traffic thinking they are gods gift when in reality it is other peoples awareness that is keeping them out of A&E. Again a memorable one from yesterday, with a private plate to remember the tool (OC67 ANE :rolleyes: ) giving it the full beans then dawdling then undertaking traffic flat out in his tuned up Audi. Fair enough, I'm no saint but there is a time and a place and a motorway during commuting hours isn't it. Also whatever tune they were running could have done with some work as it was over fuelling badly.
 
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