Im glad this thread has appeared. Myself and my missus both have FB accounts and on Tuesday morning I logged in to mine and checked on my missus one to see if she has added anything and to send her a fish

. Under the headings you see at the top eg, In a releationship, looking for friednship/random play etc. She had; Single, looking for men, looking for releationship, and play.

Needless to say I was a little worried, so I called her and told her what I saw. She denied it all. She was only on it the night before and nothing changed, which I can witness.
Her password was reset. Some how someone found out her FB password AND her MSN (reg address with FB) password. I said it could be someone from work. I also told her to use a stronger password and not one people will know like "pets names" etc She used the same password for both FB and MSN.
To cut a long story short she though it was me messing around and interferring with her privacy. So she set me up hoping I would get back to her asking about certain things.
I had a message from some random person on MSN saying "X likes X being done" I questioned my missus she denied it. I was I know seh gets on well with a certain person at work. They are close but I would never think for one minute she would do anything. Later that night I got 3 screen grabs of her private chat screens on FB. I wont go into detail but its screamed AFFAIR and the like.
I called her, text her all night and nothing not one reply. I got a text message yesterday morning saying stuff, I called her and explianed what I have seen and how I felt betrayed etc . You can see my point. I told her about this random person sedning me stuff who had access to her FB. We have sorted it out for now.
The thing is I love her and trust her but its going to be hard to not think about the fact I nearly lost her. I was was going to call it all off.
Did I do right, wrong or am/was being stupid?
FACE BOOK STINKS.