Passed memtest86+ with no errors.
I tried an old pair of ripjaws (2x2gb) and they didn't run in dual channel either - 4gb installed (1.99gb usable), so it looks like a mobo problem.
Any ideas?
what cpu vtt are you using? and have you loosened the cpu heatsink? try quarter turn on each mounting bolt
are you 100% sure theres no bent cpu socket pins? and have you bent/pressed down or flexed the mb at all when installing the cpu heatsink?
still need to know if a single memory stick boots the pc from one of the blue ram slots,test both slots one at a time
I've had the same problem with my P55 MSI-GD80 before, I can't for the life of me remember how I fixed it though.
I do seem to remember loosening the screws on my H50 and resetting the BIOS at some point, I'll see if I can rack my brains over it as it's working fine now - I must have done something right!
I've had the same issue on my current board (evga p55 le). I tried most of the things you've done such as reseating the cpu a few times and checking for bent pins, reducing the heat sink pressure and adjusting bios settings. Admittedly i didn't bother running mem test, but didn't rule out the possibility that a stick of ram was faulty.
Eventually i got round to replacing all 4 sticks with some different ram and have been good for a few months now.