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It's an option, but until I can't have kids, it's not really something I'd look intoConsidered adoption?
It's an option, but until I can't have kids, it's not really something I'd look intoConsidered adoption?
The best memories of my life so far (28 years) are all of having a great time with my parents and extended family (sister, aunties, uncles and cousins, etc). I can't really remember a lot of the places we've been as they're not important, it's who I was with that sticks in my mind. Absolutely nothing so far has beaten time spent with family having parties, days outs and Christmas.
We have our baby boy due in the next week or two and I can't wait to be able to do those same things with my own children.
When I'm 50-60 and my son is getting married, getting a car, getting a house, having children (my grandchildren), or doing whatever he chooses to do. I'll be looking on, and joining in, proudly. The fun family times will continue. I'll be surrounded by great loving people.
If you think a short break to Lisburn is better then I feel sorry for you.
I have never met any parent who has said they regret having kids BUT I have heard the odd "I wish I waited abit longer to have them"
Pro dad tip....wait until your mid 30's before starting a family. That gives you 15 years from when you are 20, to do things you want to do while you're young.
One last tip. If you are waiting until you can afford to have children then you will never have them. .
Pro dad tip....wait until your mid 30's before starting a family. That gives you 15 years from when you are 20, to do things you want to do while you're young.
I think it is a maybe thing, unfortunately you can't know until you've had them.I think that if you don't know you want kids then you probably don't want kids. It's not really a "maybe" kind of thing.
Then you'll have to find a younger wife/partner as many women don't want to wait till mid 30's to have kids, with a lot of them believing the child will be born with mental/physical disabilities which isn't surprising with statistics like this: But there is one key risk factor for Down syndrome: maternal age. A 25-year-old woman has a 1 in 1,200 chance of having a baby with Down syndrome; by 35, the risk has increased to 1 in 350
Same ages as me and my gf.I'm 31.....my Mrs is 26.....just bought a 4 bed house in preparation for starting a family in the near future......thing is like you, me and my Mrs aren't particularly keen on Kids....she is not very maternal and we are both very money focused in our careers, but then also both agree that never having children would probably be a big regret as we get older.
So we have decided to get a Dog first which will give us some responsibility, bar just looking after ourselves and then think about kids in the next 2 years.
From our point of view, money isn't the issue.....it purely a selfish idea of not being able to do whatever you like, when you like and also hearing colleagues in the office talking about only having 2 hours sleep, as they were kept all night by their kids or woken up early on a Saturday morning, sends shivers down my spine!