As a life long Windows user (probably since before most of the posters on here were born), I have been moving over to Apple over the last few years. Samsung phones became Iphones, Yoga laptops became Macbooks and now the desktop has become a Mac Mini. I am under no illusion that there are pros and cons to each nor that Apple is incredibly overpriced for what it is. I can afford it and it is my choice. Apple's model is to suck you into the ecosystem and fleece you accordingly. However I like the easy seamless integration of all those devices.
I would fully expect that in 10 years I'll go full circle.
As a devout Apple "avoider" I can fully understand where you are coming from.
I used to try and get value for money and tinker to make things work how i wanted.
However now I have less time and would happily pay a bit more for things to "just work" out of the box.
Credit where it is due, from what I can tell the Apple ecosystem seems to do this pretty darn well.
That said I still only own a single Apple device and even though it is for business use, it rarely gets turned on.
I just wish that there was backup software available that was as easy to integrate in to windows and worked as well as Time machine does