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Joe Biden has recently become embroiled in the inappropriate touching controversy:
However, this is not my real point. On the BBC Radio 4 Today program this (Thursday) morning there was a discussion about this involving two women.
One woman expressed the view that the current outrage about men invading women's "private space" was getting out of hand and almost generating an "us and them" environment.
The other woman suggested that men should NEVER under any circumstances violate a woman's "private space" without first seeking and getting her express permission. If the man in question was unwilling to seek permission he should not invade her "private space".
Whilst I am absolutely certain that men frequently feel entitled to manhandle women inappropriately I simply can't go along with the idea expressed by the second woman; next one will have to obtain a signed permission witnessed by a third party.
Men should learn some manners and women should learn to give perverts a damned good slap . . . or knee in the groin - lawyers should not get involved
I have seen a photograph where Biden is standing behind her at what I believe was some official event involving her husband. He has his hands on her shoulders and is leaning into her hair. I have no real idea what the context was or how well they knew one another but I can accept that he did seem to be getting a wee bit "touchy-feely" and that it did seem over-familiar.Wikipedia said:Former Nevada assemblywoman Lucy Flores alleged that Biden walked up behind her, put his hands on her shoulders, smelled her hair, and kissed the back of her head. She said that the way he touched her was "an intimate way reserved for close friends, family, or romantic partners".
However, this is not my real point. On the BBC Radio 4 Today program this (Thursday) morning there was a discussion about this involving two women.
One woman expressed the view that the current outrage about men invading women's "private space" was getting out of hand and almost generating an "us and them" environment.
The other woman suggested that men should NEVER under any circumstances violate a woman's "private space" without first seeking and getting her express permission. If the man in question was unwilling to seek permission he should not invade her "private space".
Whilst I am absolutely certain that men frequently feel entitled to manhandle women inappropriately I simply can't go along with the idea expressed by the second woman; next one will have to obtain a signed permission witnessed by a third party.
Men should learn some manners and women should learn to give perverts a damned good slap . . . or knee in the groin - lawyers should not get involved