I have a 3090FE, it's hot, it's loud, I don't like it, it needs water, don't want to spend a fortune or even include the CPU in the loop currently.
I already know I'll need a waterblock so a Corsair maybe? (Again, don't want to spend too much). I don't want any RGB and would prefer everything was black, including soft black hoses.
My current case is a Phanteks Enthoo Pro which can take a 280mm rad up front but I can't really see any room for a reservoir/pump so I might have to get another case unless there are some fairly compact reservoir/pumps.
So, what do I need?
You may have already tried all this but thought I'd ask. Have you been monitoring temps. Most places I've read the 3090 is pretty quiet running.
Having recently got a 3080 noticing the VRAM temps being high, googling around has led me to lots of threads of 3090 like yours being loud and running fans at 100% if the VRAM temps get to high.
People have been replacing the thermal pads with great results.
Being water cooled or air cooled you are still going to be trying to dump 350w+ of heat into your room. Only way round this is an undervolt