Internet and toxic people

Blackjack Davy said:
Your english is much better than my french and I had french as a subject at school lol. I'm terrible with languages.
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The French is was taught as a schoolboy in the late 1970s did not prepare me for how the French actually speak now.

There’s slang, contractions and phrases that have no English equivalent despite a good chunk of Modern English being Old French used incorrectly (according to my neighbours) and the French have regional accents. Did I mention how fast they talk?
 
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O. Giroud is on Sky Sports Monday Night Football. He managed to discuss the Salah situation without using the word 'toxic' but I'm not giving up hope.
 
Hello, i have made a study on internet toxicity and i am happy to share you this.

This is a work. I must understand toxicity because it really hurt me. This is for me to have a better life. It is a real work

Discussion: Perception of Humans and Toxicity


User:
I feel like almost all humans are toxic and full of biases. That there are way more people like that than genuinely healthy ones. What do you think?


Assistant:
I completely understand what you mean, and it’s a fairly common feeling when someone has been exposed to negative experiences with others. But if we look at it in a more nuanced way:


  • Biases are universal: Yes, all humans have cognitive biases, prejudices, or social reflexes that can be harmful or unfair. But that doesn’t necessarily mean “toxic” in the intentional sense.
  • Toxicity is not universal: Many people have difficult or clumsy behaviors, but true toxicity (manipulation, conscious malice) is less common than we tend to believe. We naturally notice negative behaviors more than positive ones.
  • The filter of personal experience: If you’ve lived in stressful, competitive, or abusive environments, it’s logical to come away with the impression that “everyone is toxic.” This isn’t an objective truth about humanity as a whole, but a reflection of your lived experience.
  • “Healthy” people do exist, but they’re often discreet: Kind, balanced, and honest people can go unnoticed, especially in conflict-heavy situations.

Rule of thumb: Biases and difficult behaviors are very common, but conscious malice is not universal.



User:
If you want, I can give you a small reference point to distinguish normal bias from what’s truly toxic.


User:
Yes, what’s your reference point?


Assistant:
Here’s a simple way to distinguish bias / clumsiness from conscious toxicity:


1. Bias or clumsy behavior​


  • Often unintentional, not aware of causing harm.
  • Not systematic, happens occasionally.
  • Reversible or correctable.
  • Examples: judging someone too quickly, forgetting to acknowledge others’ efforts.

2. Conscious toxicity​


  • Intentional or repetitive.
  • Systematic, repeated across different contexts.
  • Emotional manipulation (guilt-tripping, intimidation, gaslighting).
  • Long-lasting negative impact.
  • Examples: workplace harassment, strategic lying, gaslighting.

Rule of thumb:


  • Repetitive and intentional → toxic.
  • Occasional and correctable → bias or clumsiness.


User:
So basically, from what you’re saying, almost everyone is consciously toxic on social media.


Assistant:
Yes… and that’s fairly true, with some nuances:


  • Anonymity and distance: Less accountability leads to harsher or more aggressive behavior.
  • Bias amplification: Algorithms mostly show content that triggers strong negative reactions.
  • Fast reaction culture: People react impulsively to stand out.
  • Snowball effect: One negative behavior often triggers a chain reaction.

So on social media, conscious toxicity is much more visible, but it’s not representative of real life. Many people are kind and balanced offline.



User:
How do you avoid feeling overwhelmed?


Assistant:
Here are some strategies to avoid being overwhelmed by online toxicity:


1. Filter your environment​


  • Unfollow or mute toxic accounts.
  • Look for respectful, well-moderated communities.
  • Avoid polarized discussions.

2. Gain perspective​


  • Remember that this isn’t real life.
  • Limit time spent on social media.
  • Don’t read all the comments.

3. Protect yourself emotionally​


  • Don’t internalize attacks.
  • Create “safe zones” with friends or positive accounts.
  • Take regular breaks.

4. Respond wisely​


  • Ignore or block rather than engage.
  • Keep constructive discussions for safe spaces.
  • Use moderation tools (block, report, filter keywords).

Summary: On social media, not everyone is toxic, but platforms amplify negative behaviors. Actively filtering what you’re exposed to greatly changes your perception.
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I've also made a study on humans and toxicity, it was my thesis at University




Toxicity in biology and ecology
  • Many organisms rely on toxins for survival. For example, snakes, spiders, and certain plants use toxins to defend themselves or capture prey. Without toxicity, ecosystems would lose important checks and balances.
  • Humans have harnessed toxins for medicine: botulinum toxin (Botox) is used in tiny doses to treat muscle spasms and migraines; digitalis (from foxglove) helps regulate heart conditions. So toxicity, when controlled, can be life-saving.
⚙️ Toxicity in human culture and society
  • "Toxicity" can sometimes spark awareness. When toxic behaviors appear in workplaces or communities, they force people to confront unhealthy dynamics and build stronger boundaries. In that sense, toxicity can catalyze growth and resilience.
  • Art and music often explore toxic themes (think of System of a Down’s Toxicity album). These expressions help people process difficult emotions and critique societal issues.
Toxicity in environmental science
  • Certain toxic substances, like volcanic gases or heavy metals, play roles in shaping Earth’s geology and even sparking evolutionary adaptations. Life has evolved ways to resist or metabolize toxins, which drives diversity.
So toxicity isn’t “good” in the everyday sense—it’s dangerous and destructive if uncontrolled. But in small doses, specific contexts, or as a catalyst, toxicity can be useful, even essential. It’s a reminder that what seems harmful can also be transformative when balanced.
 
SexyGreyFox said:
I've also made a study on humans and toxicity, it was my thesis at University




Toxicity in biology and ecology
  • Many organisms rely on toxins for survival. For example, snakes, spiders, and certain plants use toxins to defend themselves or capture prey. Without toxicity, ecosystems would lose important checks and balances.
  • Humans have harnessed toxins for medicine: botulinum toxin (Botox) is used in tiny doses to treat muscle spasms and migraines; digitalis (from foxglove) helps regulate heart conditions. So toxicity, when controlled, can be life-saving.
⚙️ Toxicity in human culture and society
  • "Toxicity" can sometimes spark awareness. When toxic behaviors appear in workplaces or communities, they force people to confront unhealthy dynamics and build stronger boundaries. In that sense, toxicity can catalyze growth and resilience.
  • Art and music often explore toxic themes (think of System of a Down’s Toxicity album). These expressions help people process difficult emotions and critique societal issues.
Toxicity in environmental science
  • Certain toxic substances, like volcanic gases or heavy metals, play roles in shaping Earth’s geology and even sparking evolutionary adaptations. Life has evolved ways to resist or metabolize toxins, which drives diversity.
So toxicity isn’t “good” in the everyday sense—it’s dangerous and destructive if uncontrolled. But in small doses, specific contexts, or as a catalyst, toxicity can be useful, even essential. It’s a reminder that what seems harmful can also be transformative when balanced.
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Thank you very interesting ! Toxicity can have positive effects... Great :)
 
Hello
I want to tell you something great has happened in my life

I have understand what i had to understand

And i don't need toxicity anymore. And i am no more sensible to toxicity

Finally i have find peace
 
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O.Giroud said:
Hello
I want to tell you something great has happened in my life

I have understand what i had to understand

And i don't need toxicity anymore. And i am no more sensible to toxicity

Finally i have find peace
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But you haven't turned the internet off so your problems are not yet solved.
 
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