do nice guys allways finish last?

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well a girl i was seeing ( ok 2 weeks ) has kindof finished with me. kindof as in she doesent know what she wants. she says she likes me a lot. but doesent want to get hurt or hurt me. she has had a few really bad relationships in the past.

now she is about the 5th girl who has said i am to nice. thats what ***** me of the most. :(
 
Yes they do. Girls want to date a bad guy but have a proper relationship with a nice guy. Thats the way it works.

I am the way I am because of a lot of stuff out of my control and I used to be a bad guy, now I have been knocked so much I am a nice guy and I get so much less attention.
 
When they say you're too nice, they're letting you doewn gently. It's harsh but true.

Don't worry about it :)
 
Nice guys don't finish last. Whiney, needy, insecure guys do... considering you had a GF in the first place, you're probably not that.

Chin up dude.
 
spike's said:
lol. i posted a pic the other day.

did get a goodbye **** tho. so i'm a happy man. :D
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Well i think the question should be post a pic of her then.

KsHn
 
daz said:
Nice guys don't finish last. Whiney, needy, insecure guys do... considering you had a GF in the first place, you're probably not that.

Chin up dude.
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cheers mate. she's currently not sure what she wants, so i dont know whats going on. i am convinced that women are all the same. :rolleyes: should know better at my age.
 
'too nice' sounds like you worship the ground she walks on and it probably bores her silly.

What you think might be the right way to treat someone is probably stifling and claustrophobic - its probably counter intuitive to you but hey, if this is the 5th time youve had that said to you, maybe its time to try a different strategy.
 
Sometimes girls use "nice" in reference to guys as a synonym for a little to easy to get them to do what they want. Maybe you should take heed and take a bigger lead in your relationships though?
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Girls always whinge and complain how the can never find a nice guy that treats them right,

Then when they do find one they get bored or just dont want it :rolleyes:
 
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I get 'Im an nice guy' from people I don't stifle. One girl said it to me because I spoke to her over the net all the time, which was her choice.

I think a lot of girls have no clue what they want from a guy, and they will make out like they want one thing, the guy will try and be that and then they will find out that that wasn't what they were looking for and get rid of them.
 
Zip said:
Girls always whinge and complain how the can never find a nice gay that treats them right,
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The fact they're chasing after gay guys might be the problem :p

Like has been said nice guys don't finish last but I personally couldn't cope with someone who was a doormat, you need to find a happy medium.
 
malolo said:
The fact they're chasing after gay guys might be the problem :p

Like has been said nice guys don't finish last but I personally couldn't cope with someone who was a doormat, you need to find a happy medium.
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That makes you sound like a girl, are you?
 
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