Internet love/passion ?

psychas

psychas

psychas

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well im stone drunk like hell but hey if i was not i would not make this thread. I have girl friend , we are together for 3 years now officially living together. i met her on the internet. u can check her picture on the my girl friends thread. >>>>

but before i met her on web/internet i was chatting to some other girl on web and im still chatting with her on web for 5/6 years but she lived very far away. so was small possibility i could meet her. now she works in Dublin 100 km away from me which it like 1 hour away from me. And she kind of wants me to meet her in Dublin at her flat at weekend.

And she knows that i have girl friend and wants me to arrive alone. for at least few days stay at her flat.

Me my self i want to go there but i am thinking if i go there i would **** my relationship and i am afraid if something would go out of hand i would be unfateful.

what would u advice ?

btw im 22

thanks for help
 
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If you think you could get up to something with another woman you can't love your current GF very much.

What would you say if she wanted to go stay with some internet guy. ;)
 
That was one of his previous victims. The body language should have been screaming "no it's a trap".

Sorry son, that girls buried under a patio now.
 
For a serious reply, if you value your current relationship, then it's a bad idea.

Imagine if it was the other way round and she wanted to stay alone in the flat of a guy she met on the internet?
 
psychas said:
Me my self i want to go there but i am thinking if i go there i would **** my relationship and i am afraid if something would go out of hand i would be unfateful.
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I realize your drunk, but this is my thoughts on this.

If you even slightly doubt your ability to not cheat on your current girlfriend with this person, then you surely must doubt your overall commitment to the relationship that your in in the first place.

I realize that even in the most fulfilled relationships that people fantasize or have temptations, but if you serious are thinking "Well if I go up to see this new girl I might have sex with her"... your relationship with your current girlfriend can't be that great.

Either that, or you're like most men and are a whore.


Personally, look at it in these three ways.

If you trust yourself and your girlfriend trusts you - go up there, this new girl may just want to meet you and be friends.

If you really don't trust yourself - then it's simple don't go there as it'll only damage what you've got.

If you doubt whether you really love your girlfriend - Meet this new girl, be friendly and sociable but no more. Get to know one another and become good friends. If after the few days you spend together, and on the way home all you can think about is this new girl - you would have made up your mind. If on the way home, all you can think about is meeting your girlfriend... then your mind is made up.
 
Personally, I say you should get yourself a disguise (possibly a fake glasses/moustasche/nose and googly eyes combo) and turn up at her door in nothing but a long beige trenchcoat, and a pair of French knickers.

But meh, what do I know?
 
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