do you hate it when a couple cant have children

Dickyb0b · 4 Apr 2011 at 06:57

i am hearing more about stories where the guy thinks he can stay with the women and yet not give her children , is this some of the nasty stuff that goes on behind closed doors?

dont you just feel like telling the guy to **** off you're self as i cleary do , he is no use to her so why does he expect to stay with her?????

*****Fully star out swear words*****

Twentyone · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:00

There are plenty of women too who won't give a man children.

It's up to them really.

Dickyb0b · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:03

they dont really have a choice , its if the genes blend together etc.., you dont know until you have unprotected sex a lot of times that you can or cant be a parent, then its time to find someone else right?, but most stories i hear is that the guy wont let go of the women and cant stand to see another man with her, these are the type of guys that need telling straight..

EdGey · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:04

It's nobodies fault. It's certianly nothing for the likes of you to get angry about.

Life is not all about children.

Put yourself in his/her shoes for a moment will you. You love someone enough to try for children. You then realise you are unable to give him/her a child and as a result the relationship can not continue. Do you think it would then be easy to step aside and watch the love of your life go with someone else, because of something completly out of your hands?

Dickyb0b · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:06

well why should the guy expect to stay with her if she cant get what she wants?, thats what makes me angry , they seem not to like letting go of them to try have children with someone else...

EdGey · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:10

So you expect people to be all happy about it, say good bye and be on their way? After potentially years of being with them / loving them.

Dickyb0b · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:11

well it cant be true love if they cant make offspring imo

233 · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:12

Wtf?

Op obviously has no idea about loving and caring relationships

Children are just one part of it, there are many other branches to the relationship tree and if they decide to have children many options to do so be it by adoption sperm/egg dOnor etc etc

EdGey · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:12

Oh I see. So people who are unable to have children, are incapable of true love.

vanandjuanunited · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:13

Wtf
Stay of the dope op.

SHEDDER1uk · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:14

Is the op for real or just bored.

Twentyone · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:16

Oh so you are talking about not having children because they are unable too.

Well then people try other ways or the relationship breaks down. But to say that it isn't true love if they can't have children is just silly.

Dickyb0b · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:18

I am talking about when they both realize they cant be a parent , its time to split up but usually the male wont part with her but for him its just cleary about the sex but on the other hand she wants rid of him.

craptakular · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:18

Adaopt a child if your plumbing doesn't work.

hola_adios · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:18

Have we got a new batch of pro-trolls, or is someone pouring hallucinogenics in the water as of late?

knip · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:19

People should have children because they WANT to and not because they SHOULD. There are far too many "unwanted" children in this world sat in orphanages already.

I know plenty of couples who have no children, and are still deeply in love regardless.

Dickyb0b · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:21

but dont most females want children just for the free $$$ and to sit at home etc?, surely this excites them a lot instead of having to claim JSA or working.

vanandjuanunited · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:24

Glad life is so straight forward for you op.
What would you do if you discovered your partner had cancer and therefore was no "use" to you in the long term.
Would you dump them go run off and sow your seed elsewhere?

SHEDDER1uk · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:25

I take it this guy is under 18 and finds jezza kyle his hero.

vanandjuanunited · 4 Apr 2011 at 07:25

Ok I see where this is going now.

SO what is your point exactly?