Yeah, but they gave a general idea on my gaming interests which is what i was aiming to achieve by my original post..
Ill give wildstar a look, ive got GW2, had it since day of alpha release and played it once and never again

£50 never used lmao
I feel your pain - I bought the game for myself and the wife but it was....bland I guess is the best way to put it. So £100 for a month or 2 at most of play - and even then it was more a case of playing simply because I was trying to convince myself it would get better (afterall, most MMOs are rather lacking early on).
Wildstar is certainly a fine choice once it goes F2P. For me the graphics were enough to put me off as well as me not being much of a Sci Fi type of gamer. But by all accounts it is a pretty solid game.
Tera is another option, also not my cup of tea but a more active combat is definietely the way forward for MMOs.
FFXIV is a solid game, though it is bought and subbed. I enjoyed this as an MMO and if you have friends you can do all the game content up until the higher levels before having to worry about finding others to play with. The biggest issue with FFXIV for me is that it is very traditional style MMO - tab target, auto attack, passive defensive stats, slow Global Cooldowns, rigid class structure (you can of course change class which is a cool concept, but I feel this is inferior to games that allow you to actually change your roles within a class).
Rift was actually a pretty good game to me, I left prior to it going F2P so I don't know what that has done to the game, but it is free and can be worth checking out. It is similar to FFXIV in being traditional style MMO, but the classes offer a lot more flexibility.
Elder Scrolls Online A game people love to hate but since going B2P I think the game is well worth checking out, despite its flaws it has been a very enjoyable game for myself with a lot of hours worth of content. Its biggest flaw atm is the lack of new stuff for old players due to the focus on console, but with console release within the next week or so it is likely E3 will show off new content (and possibly there will be a PC sale soon after)