Ok, well by stock I meant the DDR438 2-3-2-6. (actually did DDR440 and 220x10 on the cpu). Everything else I agree with you although i've had them stable 260 at 3-2-3-6 for over a week (Memtest, Prime, SnM etc).
I'm finding in general that things are marginally quicker using relaxed timings and a higher fsb. Only talking 1 fps if that. Makes you wonder whether its worth spending all that money on quality RAM at all. I guess it depends on what revision you get.
Bit disillusioned but hey ho. Lesson learned!
Cheers everyone
Gommsta