Soldato
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Basically I am resitting 3rd year this year at uni, refailed the first semester as I hate the work and couldnt bring myself to do it, also doesn't help my doctors suddenly stopped my antidepressants due to an other problem.
This semester I finally do what I thought I wanted to do but seem to be also hating it.
Now taking a year or two out is kinda out the question as I already started an architecture course and found the education/attitude from the lecturers I was receiving laughable.
Being at this course is killing me, I am not sure how I've already not attempted to do it myself. But telling my parents I want to quit I'll get the whole "what you going to do with your life."
Now my parents claim they want me to go to uni so I can do better than them, and it's for me they want it. But I think it's all for selfish reasons. My dad stopped talking to me after architecture cause, as my mum said, he couldn't tell the other dads that I was going to be an architect, obvious a bragging right.
I wanted to take a year out last year, but my parents saw it as dropping out, and my mum said to me "what am I suppose to tell poeple, that my son dropped out of uni and is currently doing nothing?!" again, only thinking about her own pride and health.
They also claim the stressfull situation doesn't do anything for my dad's blood pressure, stomach ulcers etc, but with suicidal thoughts on my mind what about my health?!
Sorry this has turned into a huge rant.
Just looking for advice, comfort etc.
I know it's only a few months more, to possibly receive an ordinary degree, but with with first semester to resit and this semester to somehow do, it's basically an entire year again.
This semester I finally do what I thought I wanted to do but seem to be also hating it.
Now taking a year or two out is kinda out the question as I already started an architecture course and found the education/attitude from the lecturers I was receiving laughable.
Being at this course is killing me, I am not sure how I've already not attempted to do it myself. But telling my parents I want to quit I'll get the whole "what you going to do with your life."
Now my parents claim they want me to go to uni so I can do better than them, and it's for me they want it. But I think it's all for selfish reasons. My dad stopped talking to me after architecture cause, as my mum said, he couldn't tell the other dads that I was going to be an architect, obvious a bragging right.
I wanted to take a year out last year, but my parents saw it as dropping out, and my mum said to me "what am I suppose to tell poeple, that my son dropped out of uni and is currently doing nothing?!" again, only thinking about her own pride and health.
They also claim the stressfull situation doesn't do anything for my dad's blood pressure, stomach ulcers etc, but with suicidal thoughts on my mind what about my health?!
Sorry this has turned into a huge rant.
Just looking for advice, comfort etc.
I know it's only a few months more, to possibly receive an ordinary degree, but with with first semester to resit and this semester to somehow do, it's basically an entire year again.
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