Firstly, your motherboard my limit how far you can push the CPU speed, secondly, your RAM, did you make sure the RAM was running within Spec and not being overclocked?
Have you tried increasing the volts 0.1v on the CPU?
To see if the CPU or FSB are causing the failure, try lowering the CPU Mulitplier Example from 9 down to 8 or lower, then start pushing the FSB up until you get unstable, then back down 10mhz and test for stabilty, again, making sure the RAM is within its correct speed settings.
A lower Multi will allow you to start pushing the CPU speed up from a lower starting point and is just to help find out were the FSB limit is, once you know the FSB limmit, you can restore the original Multi and start pushing the FSB back to your tested limits, but with voltage adjustments on the CPU volts, and depending on your board, you may need to adjust other voltages on the board....
What Make CPU/ RAM and board do you have?