If you still see only 4gb afer installing the 64 bit version of windows, you may have to enable memory remapping feature in the bios.
I have 2 x 4GB sticks, but for some reason the RAM is reading at half capacity. With both in they say only 4GB and with only one in each reads at 2GB. :S
I'm running Win7 64bit, and haven't changed anything, how would I enable memory remapping on a Asus P8Z68-V? I'm hoping this would solve my problem and avoid an RMA.