A Week Ago...

crinkleshoes · 13 Feb 2016 at 04:22

A week ago, one of the few people I've been close to in this life, commit suicide.

I can still barely get out of bed in the morning.

I've never been all that great at dealing with loss.

I saw myself growing old with this guy, brothers for life...

I'm not sure what to do... I don't want to do anything.

I feel like I'm the one who died...

Hades · 13 Feb 2016 at 07:55

That's horrible. Sorry for your loss.

4T5 · 13 Feb 2016 at 08:01

That suxs, Sorry for your loss. I can't even delete the names from my Moby even though they bother me as I scroll past.
The only thing I do that may help is carry my mates around with me saying to myself I have to Live & Enjoy life for Them as well as myself.

Cosimo · 13 Feb 2016 at 08:42

Sorry to hear of your loss.

Don't be alone, talk, get outside and have a big hug from me.

oll3h · 13 Feb 2016 at 08:57

I've been in a similar situation in the past. Me and my mate used to go fishing a lot and his sudden tragic death made going fishing alone very difficult, so much so that i didn't go for 12 months.

All i can tell you is get out of bed and do something, anything, because staying in bed doing nothing dwelling on things that have happened do you no good.

You need time and you need to do stuff.