Contrary to popular belief good bokeh has little to do with the aperture and is not synonymous with narrow DoF, but is a combination of elements such as lenses constructions and rendering characteristics, distance to subject, distance to background behind subject, highlights and contrast in the background, how many aperture blades the lens has, longitudinal chromatic aberrations, astigmatism of the lens, and how much ringing the out of focus heights suffer from.
You can get great bokeh from a f/5.6 on a crop sensor, or even a Nikon 1.
Prime lenses tend to give nicer out of focus rendering due to simpler lens design.
Modern aspherical elements can sometimes lead to increased ringing in secular highlights, which is why older lenses are often considered creamier although were not as sharp. Indeed, in general odler sim,pler lenses tend to produce smoother bokeh while more modern lenses are a little nervous. You should also make sure any VR/IS/Os is switched off as this has a big impact.
Slow kit lenses tend to produce a more nervous bokeh which is not pleasant but some fast zooms and primes can also. E.g., the sigma 24-70,m f2.8 produces horrible bokeh, and I saw an example posted here from the canon 35mm f2.0 that was nervous.
EDIT: and a general rule is that wider and faster aperture lenses are worse for bokeh which is why the 24mm f/1.4 are not always the best and even 35mm f/1.4 on a FF body is no champion. The converse is true in that longer focal length lenses lead to smoother backgrounds due to the perspective and stretching of the background scene. As an example I get very smooth pleasing bokeh from my Nikon 300mm f/4.0 with and without a 1.4tc, even stopped down to f/8.0 My 2 fast normal primes (35 & 50mm) actually give pretty bad bokeh despite their ability to get a shallow DoF.
here is an example of getting bad bokeh despite having a 50mm 1.2L lens due in part due to the elns complexity and also due to highlights in the background:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/squinza/2789336004/
The old Nikon 50mm 1.2 is also very bad for bokeh
here is an example showing the Sigma 50mm f/1.4 showing much better bokeh than the Canon 50mm f/1.4:
http://photography-on-the.net/forum/showthread.php?t=943520&page=2
To summarize I think you will need to do some research to find what the best lenses are and be prepared to buy older lenses, maybe even manual focus lenses. Do not get fooled by fast apertures or FF sensors, the lens design and user technique is more important in getting a smooth bokeh. Have a look at some of the Zeiss primes, they are known for having nice rendition qualities.