Hi all,
Just wondering what you would all do in this situaition.
When I was 19/20 years old (now 24) I met someone who was 15 at the time through my Dad. He was friends with her parents.
Anyways, we got along pretty well and ended up being in a two and a half year relationship together which was a pretty damn good relationship if I must say.
Cut a long story short, it eventually faded away. I split up with her and moved on mainly due to the age gap, she was fairly immature at the time and that led us apart. She still wanted the relationship however.
I met various other ladies and got into a relationship with a few, all of which lasted about 6 - 10 months.
I then got back in touch with the original ex, we met up, got along really well again at the drop of a hat and tried the relationship again. It lasted about 4 weeks, various events happened in that time which just displayed to me her immaturity and I ended it again.
Again, I have since met and entered a few relationships but none of them have lasted.
I have been seeing someone since October last year. The first thing I said was I really wanna take it slow because I am sick to death of things not working out. She was fine with this and things were working really well for us both.
Anyways, 3 weeks ago even that came to an end. She was wanting more from it but had not told me so. When it eventually came out in the open I was happy to give more, but we ended up arguing a lot about it and went our seperate ways.
2 weeks ago, I heard from the original ex. Just an e-mail to see how I was etc. Anyways, we ended up meeting up for a catch up drink. Again, just got on really well at the drop of a hat and decided we wanted to see each other again.
I'm just unsure what to do. She is seriously so hot, even more so now she has aged, the attraction is immense but that doesn't matter. What matters is am I just going to be waisting my time with this girl because we seem to have tried and tried but it doesn't work.
Would you knock it on the head?
Just try casually seeing each other and let things happen as they do?
Give things another go?
Just wondering what you would all do in this situaition.
When I was 19/20 years old (now 24) I met someone who was 15 at the time through my Dad. He was friends with her parents.
Anyways, we got along pretty well and ended up being in a two and a half year relationship together which was a pretty damn good relationship if I must say.
Cut a long story short, it eventually faded away. I split up with her and moved on mainly due to the age gap, she was fairly immature at the time and that led us apart. She still wanted the relationship however.
I met various other ladies and got into a relationship with a few, all of which lasted about 6 - 10 months.
I then got back in touch with the original ex, we met up, got along really well again at the drop of a hat and tried the relationship again. It lasted about 4 weeks, various events happened in that time which just displayed to me her immaturity and I ended it again.
Again, I have since met and entered a few relationships but none of them have lasted.
I have been seeing someone since October last year. The first thing I said was I really wanna take it slow because I am sick to death of things not working out. She was fine with this and things were working really well for us both.
Anyways, 3 weeks ago even that came to an end. She was wanting more from it but had not told me so. When it eventually came out in the open I was happy to give more, but we ended up arguing a lot about it and went our seperate ways.
2 weeks ago, I heard from the original ex. Just an e-mail to see how I was etc. Anyways, we ended up meeting up for a catch up drink. Again, just got on really well at the drop of a hat and decided we wanted to see each other again.
I'm just unsure what to do. She is seriously so hot, even more so now she has aged, the attraction is immense but that doesn't matter. What matters is am I just going to be waisting my time with this girl because we seem to have tried and tried but it doesn't work.
Would you knock it on the head?
Just try casually seeing each other and let things happen as they do?
Give things another go?
