Alcohol...

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I guess this is just more of an outlet or a way to sound out my thoughts. However, recently I've been thinking about myself and my "relationship" with alcohol.

I've always been a drinker, ever since my mid teens. It started off as a social thing, but some time in my later teens lone drinking became somewhat normalised. Now this was never really a drink to get wasted situation. I have just used it as a way to wind down after work or chill on a weekend, few beers whilst playing games or watching films etc, that remains the case to this day thankfully, even whilst being in a job with a massive drinking culture.

I would say my intake can be excessive and is definitely well over recommended limits, but never to the point of being an issue. I still have plenty of drink free nights and rarely two nights on the bounce.

On the nights I do drink 4-6 cans/bottles is normal, or a bottle of wine and I don't do spirits. If doing so socially that can double although that is rarer these days and becoming increasingly so as my friends/peer group dwindles.

I've never been in bother with it either legally or financially, or professionally for that matter.
When I drink I'm reasonably well behaved and sensible for the most part.

I've never had an issue in the past with stopping for periods of time where it has been necessary, over the years I've been deployed on operations/exercises that have been dry.
However on return I've always just fell back into my old ways.

It was only recently that whilst being with physio for an injury that my diet and my alcohol intake was highlighted, and whilst not being a factor in the injury it did make me conscious that what has been normalised to me is not in fact normal... I don't feel like I have an alcoholism problem but my usage is not healthy.

This has really spurred me on to severely reduce my intake, replace alcohol where possible. At the moment I have no intention of cutting it out altogether. I just want to have a healthier relationship with alcohol, still be able to enjoy it for special occasions without reverting to casual lone drinking.
I've reduced from what was recently mostly every other day, to once a week.
I am now planning to reduce it even further with a plan to abstain for the next month and see how I get on with it.

Has anyone else had experience with severely reducing intake whilst still having a moderately healthy relationship with alcohol? How did you handle it? Has anyone tried and failed?
I want this to be a permanent life change not just another temporary break.

Keen to hear others experiences.
 
I cut it out completely 2 years ago, your just poisoning yourself really. I've learned a lot since then at how much you should look after your body and how all these chemicals are at odds with how your body should function.
This may be the route I will end up going down. I want to keep the option open where possible for the social side of it, but I might end up finding that I just don't need to anymore. I guess we will see, it's just the beginning of the journey.


I can go months without drinking or get absolutely smashed on a whim.
There is a long running thread in La Cuisine which might be worth a look:
Cheers I'll probably get involved in that thread.
 
Seems normal to me.
^^yeah...at worst you were having 'plenty of drink free nights' and now you only drink once a week - I don't think there's any problem at all!
Whilst not massively excessive, I wouldnt say its necessary "normal", it is excessive and my weekly intake is definitely well above recommended.


Just a point of view.

I saw my dad in a state you would describe as ‘drunk’ a single time in my life, on holiday, 14 years ago. Not a ‘heavy’ drinker by any means. But he would drink 1-2 beers, or a glass of wine, or a JD and coke most nights of the week. Which sounds quite harmless, but when you add up the units, it does actually go over the weekly recommended allowance. He wasn’t dependent on alcohol he just liked a drink in the evening. He died in February at 58 due to Liver Failure, there were other complications such as diabetes, and hypertension, but it came from the drinking ultimately.

The liver can heal itself, and is incredibly good at disguising that it is in pain or that something is wrong. Often to the point where when you finally get symptoms, it’s too late.

Dad went into hospital on a Thursday, he was diagnosed formally the next Thursday and died the next morning.

I’m not trying to scare you. But I would just say: you don’t need to be a stereotypical ‘drunk’ or binge drinker or dependent on alcohol or anything like that for alcohol to do you serious damage. Have a good honest count of the units you drink weekly, look at the NHS recommended maximum weekly units. If you regularly exceed it, then I suggest reducing your intake.

This is another thing that has spurred me on. I'm 38 now and I'd say I've spent at least half my life drinking this way. I'm becoming more aware of my current and future health as I get older. I had bloods done a few months ago as part of a general health checkup, Doc was genuinely surprised when I told him I'd never had them done, I just assumed that was something you did when something was actually wrong? :confused: Anyway results came back generally quite good with no major concerns for liver or kidney function. As I age I want to keep this the case. I guess as you age your focus on your own mortality comes into greater focus. I certainly dont want to leave it too late to make these changes.
 
gave up alcohol for over a month and put on a LOT of weight.
I have found the opposite. Maybe its short term but I've dropped a few Kg since limiting my drinking, but then that could also be linked to me snacking more on savory foods whilst drinking (meats and crisps were the main culprits), I definitely have less of an appetite since cutting down.
I feel I get more out of exercise as well, instead of suffering through it before like it was a chore, I'm enjoying it more now.
I guess its like most things in the fact that not everyones bodies will react the same.
 
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