sorry for another relationship thread but I just want to ask if I am being unreasonble 
well, basically me and my gf of 5 years are current on a break. I felt there is somethign different about us the minute Im back (from holiday) but couldnt quite figure out what it was then 1 day later we had a fight and she wanted to have a break (so that she can figure things out). Anyway, its been a week since and we had a little chat this moring and turned out while we were on a break, she had a crush on one of her friends
. I dont normally give a crap about crush because I know its nothing but IMO, its definately not OK when you are on a break So I asked her to stop seeing that guy for now but she went ballistix and started saying how I control her and stuffs, how important her friendships (in general, not just with this guy) and basically refused to do so.
now, what do you guys think is a reasonable reactions if you were me? also, is there anything wrong with asking that guy name? not like I would do anything to him but I just want to know

well, basically me and my gf of 5 years are current on a break. I felt there is somethign different about us the minute Im back (from holiday) but couldnt quite figure out what it was then 1 day later we had a fight and she wanted to have a break (so that she can figure things out). Anyway, its been a week since and we had a little chat this moring and turned out while we were on a break, she had a crush on one of her friends


now, what do you guys think is a reasonable reactions if you were me? also, is there anything wrong with asking that guy name? not like I would do anything to him but I just want to know
