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Nathan

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It was mine and my Girlfirends 3 year Anniversary yesterday. She made me a special card which had pictures and evrything on and a poster size clip photo frame full of pictures of me and her. We went out for a meal. Do you think i should have gotten her anything as i didnt and feel guilty although i paid for the meal?
 
Yeah, if she's making a deal of it you should be too. Paying for a meal you've both planned doesn't really cut it. Only if you take her out as a surprise would that really make up for it.
 
Take her out for a picnic if the weather turns good soon, works a treat. Maybe make something nice like she did.
 
With anniversarys its not about the money but the reasons behind things, Like taking her somewhere she really wanted to go etc. Or something she would really like that only you would know about.

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KaHn
 
even worse, i said i would make her breakfast in bed and totally forgot, i just ate mine and went to work. whoops. i think im in the dog house big time!
 
and it was my idea to come to chester in the first place to stay with you, and no nath i said we are going out for meal. as for prearranged, ringin up at half 6 to go for half 7 isnt prearranged? Girls will back me up!!
 
Nathan said:
and it was my idea to come to chester in the first place to stay with you, and no nath i said we are going out for meal. as for prearranged, ringin up at half 6 to go for half 7 isnt prearranged? Girls will back me up!!
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i take it this is the bird?

In that case you've some work to do dude.
 
Just to let you guys know, Jen (gf) is in my room logged in as me and im at work currently. This is getting confusing.
 
Nathan said:
and it was my idea to come to chester in the first place to stay with you, and no nath i said we are going out for meal. as for prearranged, ringin up at half 6 to go for half 7 isnt prearranged? Girls will back me up!!
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Oh dear. I have to say. It is not about price, how flash, how big the rock is etc... It is about how much effort and thought you put in that counts.

With anniversarys its not about the money but the reasons behind things, Like taking her somewhere she really wanted to go etc. Or something she would really like that only you would know about.
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There you have it
 
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After three years, I should hope so ;)
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You should be planning how to make it up to her, and practice your grovelling technique's. Never take a relationship for granted (don't want that to sound heavy like) but you only get out what you put in
 
As a girl I sort of have to back up the dude in this situation. Not many blokes would think of something as romantic as doing a picture card thing. Tbh if you wanted him to make an effort you have to drop hints. Like tying a not to buy you bunch of flowers to a brick and throwing it at his head. ;)

If it was Davey I'd be a bit peeved but I remind him of our anniversary in advance, so he can sort something out (17th May if you read this Davey) :p

I do think that Nathan you need to do something special for her now though, she obviously would like you to make a bit of an effort, not 30 minutes before you're meant to be doing something. :p

I recommend a romantic day out and a stop over and a nice little B&B. You’re in Chester, right? How about a trip up to the lakes?
 
i did drop hints and he kknew when our anniversay was. i keep saying to him that my perfume was running out. I dont like flowers as he can get them easily and ive had over 100 roses before so not fussed about flowers. We went to the lakes a few weeks ago cuz i live in preston, oh and i arranged that as well!!

Blokes need to pull there fingers out here and make there ladys feel special, otherwise one day they will not be there to look after you. (jen)
 
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