Another girl issue tut!

Gonzo0

Gonzo0

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Sorry for another thread like this....

Rite what do i do???

I really like this girl and she said she likes me so i took the plunge and asked her out, she said she likes me but thinks were better as friends (my heart sank at that point) she then said that she felt really bad now. Havnt spoke 2 her much since but when i asked my mate what she told him he said that she justs wants to be friends. The thing is i really like her and want us to be more than friends but knowing that will never happen is killing me, everytime i hear her name or see a pic of her my heart just melts to the floor and i get all emotional. What do i do, i want us 2 be more than friends, what do i do. I know i can trust you guys on here :)

Thanks.
 
Well she's made her mind up, there's nothing you can do to change it.

Time to "forget" (even though you're not really emotionally attached as you've not dated / been in a relationship with her) and find another person. Lots of people out there :)
 
Sounds indeed like you'll just have to move on somehow, otherwise it'll ruin your chances with other girls because you'll still be thinking of her when it'll never happen.
 
I tried that on holiday last week but i couldnt get her out of my mind.

EDIT: not the mind trick lol, referring to first post
 
1) You haven't done enough to attract her (either sexually or mentally)

2) Move on, any efforts to 'try' and get this girl will likely end in a loss because 'trying' is 'trying too hard'...

Now answer a question - are you being a pussy around her? Do you make it really obvious JUST how much you like her?
 
cleanbluesky said:
1) You haven't done enough to attract her (either sexually or mentally)

2) Move on, any efforts to 'try' and get this girl will likely end in a loss because 'trying' is 'trying too hard'...

Now answer a question - are you being a pussy around her? Do you make it really obvious JUST how much you like her?
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Nah i dont make it too obvious i talk to other people when around her and stuff but there are the odd occaions that i make it obvious like just before i go home i giver her nice long hugs and whenever she looks upset asking her is shes alright and walking her home and stuff.
 
Problem with that is she is quite shy and isnt the kind of girl that gets drunk at parties and shags everythiing with meat and 2 veg.
 
Gonzo0 said:
Problem with that is she is quite shy and isnt the kind of girl that gets drunk at parties and shags everythiing with meat and 2 veg.
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Good for her, really.. XD

Edit - That she doesnt sleep around, that is - not that she wont get with you!
 
I know thats what makes her special, ive actually never seen her drunk and rarely drink any alcohol, she's also smart.
 
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