t31os said:
Who i have on my contact list and wether i block them is my choice, i have no obligation to explain if i block anyone, i really don't think blocking someone on MSN is something you could seriously take someone to court over.
The only obligations i have is to abide by the Terms & Conditions set out by MS.
Its nothing to do with the rules, its to do with common courtesy. If I am walking down the street, it is quite possible that I might get bothered by someone selling something, someone begging, someone handing out leaflets, etc etc. Same as on MSN, unsocilited or anti-social behaviour. However, you can politely decline without telling them to go screw themselves. And if they are trying to contact you, and you blank them, and they don't even know, and you don't care, then quite frankly, you have no social skills and need to realise that in life, we are all in it together, and unless you are able to generally empathise with others, without needing to agree 100% with their lifestyle or other things, you will be a sad, lonely person who gets his kicks from blocking people out as opposed to breaking through and getting on with people.
Ironically, it is exactly your attitude that makes british pubs often really crap, you go in alone and expect perhaps to chat to one or two others, but if everyone is already in their little set groups, that isn't being social.
I know an irish guy who, when he came over to england, didn't know anyone, and tried to chat to people in bars etc, but basically because england is such a goddamn unsociable place sometimes, he went for about 6 months before he actually managed to make some friends.
In ireland he could have walked into any bar and had a good chat with a stranger. But, quite frankly, the "english way" seems to be assume someone you don't know = psycho paedophile rapist unless you have a common friend etc etc.