Poll: Are you single?

So?

  • Yes

    Votes: 451 51.5%

  • No

    Votes: 371 42.4%

  • Maybe

    Votes: 54 6.2%
  • Total voters
    876
I've been with my girlfriend for nearly two years, and we're currently on a 'break' that I fear is signalling the end of our relationship. Whatever happens will be for the best but it's a pretty scary place to be. I've no idea what I'll want at the end of this break, or what she will want, so it's quite scary, but as I said, it's for the best whatever happens on so I shall just work through it it :)
 
caksey said:
Yep - been happily divorced for 3 years now
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Yup, I am very happy in my current relationship, but I have been glad to get out of relationships in the past and live quite happily on my own for a while.

If anyone thinks a particular relationship is more hassle than it is worth then get out of there, fast.
 
To be fair im never single, im always out meeting people so theres always opportunities and if a nice looking lass comes along ill chat her up :)
 
Mohinder said:
I've been with my girlfriend for nearly two years, and we're currently on a 'break' that I fear is signalling the end of our relationship. Whatever happens will be for the best but it's a pretty scary place to be. I've no idea what I'll want at the end of this break, or what she will want, so it's quite scary, but as I said, it's for the best whatever happens on so I shall just work through it it :)
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Hi Mohinder,
I don't think 'breaks' really work. The fact that you need to have a 'break' spells trouble.

Whoever initiated the break doesn't matter. Look at it this way, nobody is at fault, you are just not compatible with each other.

I am going to sound like an old git now, but when you are younger, people tend to think much more short term. You only tend to meet people who are truly compatible with you for a long term relationship every few years (yes years).

I would recommend:
Finish your current relationship.
Enjoy your free time in the meanwhile.
Bide your time until you find the right person.

When I was young, I used to think I'm a bit of a Saddo if I'm single, and worry about what other people thought.

Don't think that way, just wait till you meet the right person. Meanwhile feel free to have casual sex:D
 
Yes, Given up finding someone.

my last one found me, but also found her Boss and his bigger wallet, so i basically dont want anything to do with anyone anymore.
 
Been single since last june when i ended a relationship i'd been in for 5 years. Enjoying the freedom of being single and having my own flat tbh. Also, it's great fun to just go out and meet/date different women.

Just recently started seeing a girl that i've known for about 3 years but too early to tell if it'll really go anywhere. Quite happy to stay single though if it ain't right.

For me the important thing about being single is to make sure you keep going out and meeting people, give yourself options rather than jump into a relationship with the first person you find who seems half decent....
 
Yeah, Since Feb 2006, getting a bit tedious now lol. And struggling to find a new one, but ah well, would be worse I guess hah.
 
I have been single for a good while now which is hardly surprising since I feel nothing but disgust towards most modern girls my age. You know the sort, Playboy bunny ear wearing, binge drinking uncouth harlots who have their knickers around their ankles and their ankles behind their ears more often than I inhale a breath of air. Call me old fashioned but I'd rather die a lonely old man than hook up with a woman who I have absolutely no respect for.

I have come across a few diamonds out there but they are very few and far between and those that do occasionally show up either live at the other side of the world or are married.

I'm not losing any sleep over it though. I'm perfectly secure with being single and am prepared to remain so until the right woman comes along if she ever does. Besides, I thoroughly enjoy the bachelor lifestyle :cool:
The only problem is that my grandparents think I'm gay because back in their day they were married with 3 or 4 children when they were my age!
 
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