Poll: Are you single?

So?

  • Yes

    Votes: 451 51.5%

  • No

    Votes: 371 42.4%

  • Maybe

    Votes: 54 6.2%
  • Total voters
    876
Cambofrog said:
Hi Mohinder,
I don't think 'breaks' really work. The fact that you need to have a 'break' spells trouble.

Whoever initiated the break doesn't matter. Look at it this way, nobody is at fault, you are just not compatible with each other.

I am going to sound like an old git now, but when you are younger, people tend to think much more short term. You only tend to meet people who are truly compatible with you for a long term relationship every few years (yes years).

I would recommend:
Finish your current relationship.
Enjoy your free time in the meanwhile.
Bide your time until you find the right person.

When I was young, I used to think I'm a bit of a Saddo if I'm single, and worry about what other people thought.

Don't think that way, just wait till you meet the right person. Meanwhile feel free to have casual sex:D
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I know all of this to be usually true, which is why it sucks. I know full well this break is highly likely to be the end. I'm probably going to end up single for a while, which, as you say, is no bad thing in the long run, but right now I'm in the middle of most likely seeing the end of a relationship between myself and someone I really do love, which is going to be really hard if it ends up happening. Which, as I've said, is the most likely outcome.

It'll be alright in the end, I know that much, but right now it's crap.
 
Single through choice, but sometimes they manage to make me cave in through persistence.
Saying no is much easier then saying yes for me when i don't know the women for at least 3-4 months prior & sometimes cultural fear but could have missed out on a good thing so i may start taking more risks.
Its mainly down to being shy & scared of the unknown & for fear of wasting my time on a girl that ends up to be no good.
 
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ishiamaru said:
Yes but im working on it, change of tactics and all that

and i've had plenty of offers, they were all mingers though haha
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Most of the best looking girls get turned down by me as i don't like there personality & the ones that are nice are already taken.

Most girls that i end up with are girls that i would not really look twice at but they grow on me because of personality.
My heart is being than my eyes :)
 
Azagoth said:
On a related topic, what's everyone's thoughts on the ideal age difference between men and women. That is if there is such a thing.
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That is defiantly down to person to person but i really starting thinking hard about it when there is more than 10 years in it.

And i find it shocking that girls has young as 17 try to chat me up with me being
38 & them knowing it before hand.
 
Scuzi said:
I'm still a youngster by years at 22 but I think like an old fella ;)
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i kinda agree with everything you say, so many girls these days are a 5 letter word which would probably get me banned from forums...

...i dont want one of these birds so i dont bother.

26 monday and as you say most of the "real" women are married now.
 
Kell_ee001 said:
Knip.... what do you think these guys are trying to say about us!? :eek: :(
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I think you need this, Kelly, to set you apart from the other Dons :P

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It's the best i could do. Female Gangsters are irritatingly sparse.
 
No , i always had a girlfriend, longost without one was about a month. I dont like being single so i dont tend to stay that way, however i only go out with people i really wanto to so i am lucky i find people i want quickly then :) one im with has been 2 years so who knows what will happen down the line!!
 
My motives for remaining single are entirely altruistic, it's not really fair on the thousands of girls out there all round the world to have to miss out on me if I decided to only be with one girl for the rest of my life :p
 
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