Babies being swapped at the hospital

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I'm guessing sometimes the nurses are too busy making tiktoks and these mistakes happen, this guy on reddit thought his wife was cheating after reading some incel guff online, took a paternity test and found out his daughter wasn't his... but surprisingly also later discovered wasn't his wife's either:


Does make you wonder how common this is, apparently not so much in the UK:


Though the near misses aren't exactly confidence inspiring either:

NHS said:
Baby taken back to a mother in Bay 3 identified by the mother as wrong baby , baby then wheeled to mother opposite who called back the member of staff to say this was also not her baby .

But apparently in backwards countries like South Africa, Spain and 'merica it does happen occasionally:

Spain: https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/lifestyle/family-kids/woman-discovers-switched-birth-20-24955195

South Africa: https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/uk-world-news/man-swapped-birth-resents-mother-25995413

The latter case was a bit :eek: as they did discover the mistake when the kids were only 2 years od but... rather surprisingly, decided not to swap them back, though kept in contact. Unfortunately one of the kids was then stuck with a poor single mother and rather resentful of the fact his actual mother was quite well off (of course the single mum's actual kid, who'd grown up with rich parents, was quite happy with how his life had turned out). In the end, the rich mother decided to encourage her actual kid to move in with her too leaving the former single mum with no kid:

Speaking at the time, Sandy said: “I just want to know she’s really happy with what she’s achieved.
“I mean she’s ruined people’s lives, there’s just no other way to look at it… she’s ruined mine for starters.”

I don't really get their approach, surely, upon finding a mistake like that you'd want your actual kid back? If you'd had the wrong kid for a while then you'd kinda want to maintain contact with them too I presume but surely you'd not abandon your actual offspring?

Anyway what would you want to do GD - say you have a kid, the nurse rushes off with it to clean it up and because too busy and/or incompetent/dumb manages to stick the wrong bracelet on it and another baby... you later discover the error...

Would it change your view/approach if it were discovered at 2 years vs 5 years vs some later point like 10 years?
 
A good example in hospitals is when they'll write in marker "this hip" or something prior to an operation

Yeah they tend to ask a few times too, various people check your DOB etc.. you'd think these procedures would be idiot-proof and yet... Automation ought to help with some of it, prescribing errors are still a big issue - can be things like bad handwriting or just people not paying attention + hospital pharmacies can be slow AF... take the human out of various parts of the process and you can get things running much more efficiently. (for example: https://pharmaceutical-journal.com/...-medication-errors-halved-by-automated-system)

I don't think she isn't ours but should it ever be revealed she wasn't, I don't think I could easily just give her up. She's 6 now and the time we've had together is too strong a bond to break.

Seems to be a similar case with this woman on reddit, like she's posted in the legal help section and also made some comments along the lines of getting a big house for both families... The thing is the other family might just want their daughter back and kinda stay in touch. Another aspect is if she decides to keep it quiet would she be liable if/when the other family discovers the error... Like supposing she keeps it and the other family find out when the kids are 15 say, they go to the hospital and they contact this mother... if this mother reveals that she already knows and has known for 10 years then WTF - the other family could be miffed that they could have been alerted 10 years ago and that this woman has essentially decided to keep their child from them for another decade.
 
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