bah, more relationship crud, cheating ect.. :(

Sorry to say this but I think shes taking you for a mug and if she's making you this paranoid is she really good for you even if she isnt.

Personally I would move on, kick her out too if she lives with you still too.
 
Ok. Here's what you do.

1) Spiderman her
2) Throw her things out of your flat
3) Change the locks
4) Break off all contact.
 
Cr0fty said:
^Spiderman her? :p

Eg: Wait until she walks into the room and then drop from the ceiling and tie her up in a web?
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Na, pull out just before the 'highlight' of lovemaking and do it in your hand, then throw it on her face shouting "Go web go!!"

(Courtesy of Penski iirc).
 
Get some of the back rent from her and then kick her out I say - sounds like the paranoia will get worse if you continue with her.
 
End it now mate , i know its a harsh thing to say - and i know its an easy thing for me to say, and a hard thing for you to do. But its not worth living down in the dumps with that dull ache.
I did this, only to find out the girl in question was with 2 or 3 other guys at the same time.
 
She really does sound like a tart mate. Relationships need trust and I don't think anyone here blames you in the slightest for not being able to trust her - none of us would either. It sounds like you need to get out of there, because if you can't trust her the relationship will just ruin you, as someone's already said. It'll only get worse, break it off. It'll be for the best in the long run.
 
Phnom_Penh said:
End it, now.
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Spot on. Regardless if you love her, she obviously doesn't feel the same way or at least doesn't seem to care what this has/is doing to you.

Cheating after 8 months? Mate, I would've walked without hesitation. You don't need this crap and if you put up with it, it will only set a precendent for later on. Take a stand and end it.
 
basically 1 month into the relationship she cheated on me with 2 of her friends at the same time. Then lied to me about it for 3 and a half months AND got her other friend to cover for her regarding why she didnt come home that night.
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Cheating is one thing, but that's just plain baldfaced sluttery! Two guys at the same time after one month?! Good grief!

It's over. She's effectively ended it herself, by her actions. Tell her to pack her gear and get out.

Without trust, you don't have a relationship. You obviously have no trust; ergo, you have no relationship.

XanderThal said:
but i love her :(

although its turning me into something im not...
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I'm not exactly sure how you can love someone like this. What, exactly, do you love her for?
 
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