So I am sat in traffic when a pub landlord decides to reverse out of her drive way in hew two week old Range Rover, into the side of my car.

She has asked me not to go down the insurance route and all of her customers gathered round to try and convince me to go with their mate, who to be fair was a lovely guy, and have him do the work for cash to get the car right. He said it would cost £300 for the panel from BMW and he would do the work for her so her £500 excess wouldn't come into play and she would be better off.
As tempting as this was as I did feel sorry for her, my independant garage have said it'll be more like 900 where the side panel has been pushed into and folded over the bonnet and I took it to Dick Lovett BMW's new Bristol bodyshop who pointed out that whilst the door wasn't touched, the impacted panel has been pushed into the door a bit as well so that isn't perfect.
Anyone got any advice? BMW were very professional and pointed out loads of tiny things that the indy's missed. Cosmetically im sure it will be fine, but knowing nothing about cars mechanically, I am a little worried about the impact on the car. BMW also said they had an accident management company, should I take them up on that offer?

She has asked me not to go down the insurance route and all of her customers gathered round to try and convince me to go with their mate, who to be fair was a lovely guy, and have him do the work for cash to get the car right. He said it would cost £300 for the panel from BMW and he would do the work for her so her £500 excess wouldn't come into play and she would be better off.
As tempting as this was as I did feel sorry for her, my independant garage have said it'll be more like 900 where the side panel has been pushed into and folded over the bonnet and I took it to Dick Lovett BMW's new Bristol bodyshop who pointed out that whilst the door wasn't touched, the impacted panel has been pushed into the door a bit as well so that isn't perfect.
Anyone got any advice? BMW were very professional and pointed out loads of tiny things that the indy's missed. Cosmetically im sure it will be fine, but knowing nothing about cars mechanically, I am a little worried about the impact on the car. BMW also said they had an accident management company, should I take them up on that offer?